Broken Engagement

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Re: Broken Engagement

@Zamzam123

I understand and truly believe Allah swt plans are defo better for us and that in a way he swt has saved me from what could of been a lot worse. I wish i was making such a story up but unfortunately this is not made up. I still sit there thinking where did it go wrong what did his mum want, why she behaved way she did. She was a single but educated women who had a very good career of her own, yet when it came to it she said things to me but never faced my family. I suppose everything happens for a reason my rishta broke and the very next month Allah called me to his house for Umrah. I didn’t get married which I thght I would but I performed Umrah which I hadn’t planned whatsoever. He Allah swt really does work in mysteries ways. Thank you guys for your support and kind words. It gives me strength reading your posts and knowing there are genuine ppl out ther. Thank you

I had a similar thing happen to me a few years back (I posted about it). An arranged setting where HIS side was persistent about wanting to come over…they came, were super “excited” to baat paaki and then all of a sudden disappeared. His mom towards the end would always give us taanay about how he could get so many other people and she doesn’t know why they’re going with me (I’m in med school and her son was still unemployed at the time…). Well then they just vanished, the guy stopped talking to me; the phone calls from the mom, everything disappeared. I was sad and confused. I kept thinking about why. But I got over it. Now aH after 3 years, I’m engaged to someone else. It’s a "love " marriage but it’s such a difference between how I get treated by my MIL to be. I sit there and think about what would’ve happened and I thank God for how it all worked out even though I was so sad at the time. iA you’ll look back on this too in the same light.