bringing your kids up in Britain

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But there is a good side to "desi's" too

the way they come together in a crisis, the way that they can be depended upon, the similar lifestyles etc

its not all bad

I mean you cannot live away from them and then bring up your children like dinosaurs in a bunker and teach them that they are not like little lucy who lives next door and has a boyfriend and a tattoo because we are Muslim/Pakistani and are different..

What the hell will they know about what those words really mean?

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Yeah ur right… sigh.. i went thru the same stuff too.. right now i’m glad that I wasn’t raised around desis but then i had all those problems as a kid that i don’t wnat them to hav so ugh i dunno.. :rotato:

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LD, being a **homosexual **is not freedom of expression, it is a sick disease and should be treated as such, its not only repulsive its against everything good in nature. So please, lets keep this freedom of expression stuff in its place, because some of the things are defined very clearly in Islam and this happens to be one of them

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What’s OK by many doesn’t necessarily mean it’s OK by Islam…For God’s sake, do you people even realize there is a God who is watching you? Who controls even the molecules of each and every thing in the universe or is it just some myth that you were born into?

That God according to Islam has forbidden some things and to fight them to the death if necessary…Or do you believe it’s just a sham that Muslims follow? That we do not have to face someone for our actions and beliefs?

If we are not Muslims, then what are we? If not to die as Muslims then it is better for us to become animals and die like animals…Any animal, even a pig is being better than being a non-Muslim because at least a pig doesn’t have to answer for its sins and be punished for it…As Humans we will be reckoned with, no doubt about that, but with what belief?

That gayism is OK? Even if it’s strictly forbidden in the Quran and the Injeel and the Taurait? What will be your excuse to your Creator whom you WILL meet. If you doubt that, then it’s time to look into what you are…

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Fair dinkum matie! Bravo. :k:

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Please Lajawab, calm down

This is absolutely none of your business but as of yet I have not endulged in that kind of behaviour.

and as far as Im aware I am not to be judged on the actions of anybody elses perceived sins.

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^^

But you will be reckoned with if your perceptions accept the other’s sins as being ‘OK’ with…

If I say that it’s OK for someone to steal, I am actually becoming part of the crime, because I accepted something forbidden as acceptable to me…

If I say that drinking is OK because people like to lay back, chill out once in a while, I am refuting the very tenet of Quran, and that is immediately making me a Kaffir…In just one acceptance of an instance I was thrown out of Islam…

Why? Is Islam that strict? Is Islam that narrow-minded? Is Allah :swt: so unforgiving?

Answer is, any second, I refute a ‘Command’ of Allah :swt:, technically I have disbelieved in His message…

And you know what disbelieving in His message means…

P.S. I apologize if I sounded a little harsh in my previous post…Was unnecessary because you are smart and was not meant to be…

P.P.S Whatever gave you the idea that I think you indulge in such behaviour…:expressionless:

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My reply to the above post is something that I do not wish to share with all and sundry so I'll pm you and Kaleem as you two are the ones who have turned this into a focal point.

I think that this particular discussion has run its course So I'd like to get it back on its original track

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L Diddy, dont mind me, I am just an innocent bystander who got involved in the wrong discussion at the wrong time. I have nothing against freedom of expressions, however, I do mainatin that **homosexuals **are spreading a disease which will cause the death of humanity.

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So exquisitely put Kaleem…:clap:

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Lazy Bibi, I think this thread should be proof enough that people are right in being concerned about raising their kids around desis. :devil:

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if this was cafe Id have resorted to this:bailan:

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Also PM me.

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Ahmadjee bhaijaa, yeah and we should send little munna to "Gay boyscout summer camp" as well...I am sure you will be ok with that ahmadjee bhaijaan...:)

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Oh I dunno Ahmadjee… sometimes I turn too Christian for my own good

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Kaleem Bhai, trust me gayness isn’t contagious.

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Its against my religion:D

im off, im going to have a couple of gin and tonics …that should calm me down

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^^

Lahola…Larki, baaz aaja…

The people of the cities of Lut :as: and cities of Sodom and Gomorrah would beg to differ…

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:k: good point,

i think some of us should also look at Gayism in the large mullah community in pakistan,

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Hmmmm…tera kiya hoga kaliya. :smiley: