Bringing that spark back into marriage

[Niksik]

Re: Bringing that spark back into marriage

@Femme_Fatale

I don’t like these lectures They make the women sound so negative and the guys sound like such angelic victims. I would like to lecture this aalima I also don;t see how many of these can be instrumental in bringing back spark. Both husband and wife should follow some of this stuff for a smooth marriage but seriously how does biting the tongue add spark?

The lady was actually quite nice because someone from the crowd asked her if it is only our responsibilty as women to fix a marriage, and she replied by telling that her husband was telling the guys in the men’s section of the masjid what their role is as a husband. So I guess we only hear one side of the story…

[Femme_Fatale]

Re: Bringing that spark back into marriage

now if TLK was as spiritually superior as you we would have had a summary of the mens lecture too :D

[AQ]

Re: Bringing that spark back into marriage

@Femme_Fatale

now if TLK was as spiritually superior as you we would have had a summary of the mens lecture too

Do not open a pandora box… you will regret

[kali_billi]

Re: Bringing that spark back into marriage

^:rotfl:

[TLK]

Re: Bringing that spark back into marriage

now if TLK was as spiritually superior as you we would have had a summary of the mens lecture too :D

I wish I could meet you soon, one on one, so to teach you lesson for saying such crap ...

but wishes seldom come true, unless you wish for something really really bad

[kali_billi]

Re: Bringing that spark back into marriage

[Niksik]

Re: Bringing that spark back into marriage

now if TLK was as spiritually superior as you we would have had a summary of the mens lecture too :D

TLK was NOT at the men's lecture, conveniently! So I guess I have to do all the work. Damn.:D

[kali_billi]

Re: Bringing that spark back into marriage

hahahhaa:rotfl:

[TLK]

Re: Bringing that spark back into marriage

^^ tumhay baRi hansi aa rahee hai

[kali_billi]

Re: Bringing that spark back into marriage

haan aa rahi hai to???

[Babul_Ki_Gudiya]

Re: Bringing that spark back into marriage

nice..:)

[sadzzz]

Re: Bringing that spark back into marriage

i dont think anyone needs to go to a scholar to know such things.. common sense me thinks

[Niksik]

Re: Bringing that spark back into marriage

No, we don't need to...but it is nice to attend lectures once in a while and get some bonus nuggets or reminders. Sometimes even common sense escapes the common man.:)

[TLK]

Re: Bringing that spark back into marriage

i dont think anyone needs to go to a scholar to know such things.. common sense me thinks

Is this common sense the reason why we see such "PEACFULL" marriage lives on GS

[Sadi_Sobi]

Re: Bringing that spark back into marriage

These have clearly been written by men, for men. They remind me of those 1940s manuals on how to be the perfect housewife, where the woman’s role in life was to cook, clean, be subordinate and meet her husband’s every desire. I thought Islam was more progressive than that.

To keep spark alive you need passion. Slaves don’t do passion. The aalima was oh so wrong

[TLK]

Re: Bringing that spark back into marriage

@Sadi_Sobi

These have clearly been written by men, for men.

she found the secret that we were trying to safeguard for centuries

[kali_billi]

Re: Bringing that spark back into marriage

ok i’ll laugh once again …

[Niksik]

Re: Bringing that spark back into marriage

@Sadi_Sobi

These have clearly been written by men, for men. They remind me of those 1940s manuals on how to be the perfect housewife, where the woman’s role in life was to cook, clean, be subordinate and meet her husband’s every desire. I thought Islam was more progressive than that.

To keep spark alive you need passion. Slaves don’t do passion. The aalima was oh so wrong

Hmmm. I guess passion comes from dedication.
But then what do I know?
I need to figure out how to put a ban to slavery first. Sheesh!

[TLK]

Re: Bringing that spark back into marriage

@kali_billi

ok i’ll laugh once again …

Kali, people will think that I am paying you to laugh, chup ho jaa’o khudaa kay liyay

[kali_billi]

Re: Bringing that spark back into marriage

im sorry but this thread is getting funnier :D