Re: Bringing that spark back into marriage
i dont think a wife (or hubby for that matter) is being a doormat just cus she's not giving the hubby a headache as soon as he walks in the door..
we both work, and the last thing we both wanna do is fight or argue about something upon seeing each other. How is that being a doormat? there are days when im at work and hubby is working from home.. or is sick at home.. and when i get back, the last thing i want is nagging... would i call my hubby a doormat? no... its called caring.. giving someone space and time to breathe and relax once they get back..
in regards to biting your tongue.. there are a lot of things we say when we are angry... a lot of the time when we are talking to our parents or even friends, we hold back on some stuff so that we dont cause havoc.. if we apply the same to a hubby/wife relationship.. why is it so wrong?
listening to ur hubby doesnt make u a slave... and same applies in reverse
it's not wrong if that's what works for you. but it does not work for everyone and not biting your tongue does not make for a bad marriage. With my parents i have to hold back; with my husband I don't. . . and he doesn't either. . .and I think it makes our marriage stronger, thank God.