I joined Gupshup when I came down with swine flu… oh trust me… I know about your illness probably better than anyone else on these boards. Freaking spent 2 days in the hospital then another 3 weeks basically isolated from the world because everyone was scared they were going to get infected 
. It was lonely and pretty miserable… but gup shup got me thru the days and nights it was my saving grace as I see it is for you as well 
I am not! 
Well they can have their opinions and this bhabi can have hers. I want to be a nandh tho. Or a devraani. Your choice.