hey ya fellas!sumthin ive been thinkin abt is tht nowadays it has bcum vry difficult fr the parents of girls to find a good suitable match for their daughters.in the entire process of rishtas cumin n goin n the wait for a good suitable decent proposal makes the gal age.i knw a frend who is nt yet married n close to her 30s n dis entire thing is makin her vry depressed sp the age issue.and moreoover wen such gals see gals younger getting married makes them even more upset.ive tried talkin to her many times n xplaining to her but da more i talk da more my poor frend gets upset.any advice 4 such gals?girls who are in the late twenties and nearing 30s,its not their fault neither is it their parents fault tht they r single yet.wht wud b a suitable advice for such gals passin thru such a terrible n difficult phase of life.
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Can you write in proper English? It's difficult to understand some parts of what you have wrote.
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gals who keep waiting for a suitable match and r unable to find a good decent proposal and AGE in dis process becum depressed n upset.n get more depressed wen dey see gals younger to them getting married n engaged.wot advice shud b given to such a gal whoz in her late twenties n nearing thirty.in short is it OK if the bride is in her late twenties or thirties.
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No it's not okay if a girl is in her late 20s and 30s and still single. She should either marry the Church or accept the first rishta from a guy that comes for her, regardless of the guys compatibility. Quite frankly, any girl who's over 21 is too old - her eggs are close to expiring and she has nothing left to offer society. So she's better off removing herself from society altogether.
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Lol, I guess there is a communication issue here...
...Anyway, I'll answer what I think you mean.
Essentially, girls who fail to find a husband or suitable partner become depressed and upset. Well these days most girls and boys marry at a later age. It is actually a trend to find girls who have a career and decide to get married later albeit not as much in the Desi community. However, age should matter to a certain extent but there is nothing wrong with marrying at a later age. Best things happen to those who wait. This has proven true for my aunt who is now happily married. She was 32/
In essence try not to over think the whole age thing. Actively look for what you want in a man and Im sure friends/family can help root out a guy for you. Don't ever compare yourself with another person. Everyone is different. Some get married early some don't and one should wait until they are truly ready for marriage and then pursue it.
Finding potential spouses online is quite popular. You can always check online marriage websites or going to social events which will give you more of a opportunity to find someone.
Good Luck.
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y do u tpe lyk dis
and why not like this where it makes it easy for everyone to understand?
Yes I am hormonal.
In response to your question I agree with CEO.
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will be careful with typing in future.typing 'lyk dis' is easier.:).Sehrysh i respect ure views but sadly cannot let my very dear best friend who is a distant relative know about this.thanku rest for ure thoughts:).more viewpoints are welcum:)
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will be careful with typing in future.typing 'lyk dis' is easier.:).Sehrysh i respect ure views but sadly cannot let my very dear best friend who is a distant relative know about this,she'll feel hurt.i had the new topic started so i could find some good sound advice for a beloved:).thanku rest for ure thoughts:).more viewpoints are welcum:)
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Thank You :)
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Oh dear, I thought my sarcasm was obvious - I guess there really is a communication gap :hinna:
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Pfft, You should just read what I write. 
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Sehrysh sorry dint get wot ya meant!:
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But m agree with sehrysh here unfotunately... now @ the age of 28 i think i wasted my life in studies n fun. i got married last year n could't conceived yet.. last month i diagnosed hypo-thyroid disease n my weight reached to 80 kg from 65 kg.. so many tensions m facing now.. my life became like hell i'm even cannot enjoy my personal life... this is all bcz of over age m sure...
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This is what happens, Sehrysh, to the likes of you and me. Usually serious posters are censured for occasional sarcasm/exaggeration. How dare we be facetious? 
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But m agree with sehrysh here unfotunately... now @ the age of 28 i think i wasted my life in studies n fun. i got married last year n could't conceived yet.. last month i diagnosed hypo-thyroid disease n my weight reached to 80 kg from 65 kg.. so many tensions m facing now.. my life became like hell i'm even cannot enjoy my personal life... this is all bcz of over age m sure...
Oh God 28 is not overage I have known women who had babies till their 40's. You can even google about this or ask a doctor. I conceived when I was 28 and became a mom at almost 29 years of age. Please get yourself out of this that you are over age to become a mom !
and strong girl you or any other girl will only get married when it is meant to be. Allah ki zaat par yaqeen ho to no body would blame anyone for late marriage , early marriage & blah blah
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obviously neither you nor your friend can do anything in this situation. its all in the mind. she should rather reconcile to Allah's will and keep hopes that the best has yet to come. it may not change the situation but it can help get rid of her despair and lead her life as a hopeful and energetic person, otherwise the depression will swallow her alive.
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*written
Can you write in proper English? It's difficult to understand some parts of what you have wrote.
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Best things happen to those who wait. This has proven true for my aunt who is now happily married. She was 32/
In essence try not to over think the whole age thing. Actively look for what you want in a man and Im sure friends/family can help root out a guy for you. Don't ever compare yourself with another person. Everyone is different. Some get married early some don't and one should wait until they are truly ready for marriage and then pursue it.
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tell her to get a job, have a career. go abroad if she can and live independently. she wont come running back to her parents to get her married.
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ofoh
jab Allah ki marzi hogi to appki fraand ko rishta mil jaye ga.