Bride and Groom's Own Dance Number

[Muzna]

Re: Bride and Groom’s Own Dance Number

@terebina786

Why is person A’s reputation in society based on the fact that they’re friends with Person B? This is the problem with our culture.. Everyone is judged based on OTHER peoples actions. I can see how if you wanted to protect your daughter from going down that path then fine, but if she’s a good person, goes to school, doesn’t skip, why should her friend’s skipping reflect on her? Likewise, why should my cousin be judged because I want to dance at my wedding? It makes no sense. She’s not me and I’m not her - we’re individuals.

Yes…it is a problem with our culture. Unfortunately the problem does not exist without reason.
Of course you are individuals…but the company we keep says a great deal about our own tastes and preferences. We obviously would not hang around with someone that we have nothing in common with. Naturally we would be found amongst like-minded folks.

@terebina786

But then it went beyond inlaws to what will the society think. And hey it might just as well come off :halo:

Did it go beyond…maybe I was too focused on the situation at hand and didn’t see that. In any event, I’ve never given much credence to what society might think…simply doesn’t rank in my charts. But if I have invited certain guests to my event then yeah, I might give it a thought or two. Not out of contempt but out of respect.