Bridal Dupatta Setting (Shaadi/Valima)

This is such a useful thread!! Please post pics with dupatta setting ideas, My duppatta is really heavy on the two shorter edges whilst the rest is normal kadai. Half a meter across on both sides of the duppatta the kadai is quite heavy, making it a bit stiff, i regret getting so much kadai done on it but originally the whole duppatta was like that so we took it out on the central panel as once i sit down you wont really see the behind that much anway...

not sure if that description makes sense! anyways i need ideas for duppatta setting, i think i want it as out of the way as possible as I am wearing a rajastani lengha and i want that to be on display more...

sorry for essay!! help guys!!