hey guys im not sure if this has been bought up before on these forums! if it has then im sorry!
ok scenario is as follows!
girl likes boy! caste is different but not an issue! both pakistani, both muslims, both near enough from same village back home so there toar tahreeke are pretty much the same aswell as tradition and obviously culture!
girl is about to graduate, guy only went to college but works and has goals for the future! it was pointless for guy to go uni because he wants to open a garage and did the necessary courses for that! hence has started working and saving, looking for a house and doing what men should do beore marriage!
anywayz here is the problem! girls family as strict, girls parents have like an ego where they make the decisions and and girl has to agree if not guilt trip and emotional blackmail starts. girls parents wouldn;t force but they just have this thought that if the girl decided her future partner it kinda makes them feel less superior and that they are wrong if that makes sense!
anyway girl is gettin rishtay but obviously not interested and refusing and sooner or later she has to bring out her love. boys side on the oher hand no everything and are ok with everything u no having girl from outside family!
now girls brother found out she likes someone but he does not wnat to understand or hear anything and has told his sister to end things!
now what u need to understand is that the girl is quite weak and will buckle easily…but is very determined even if that means not having the lavish dream she has dreamed of!
brother has stopped tlkin to her…so what would u advise the girl next?
guy has said be patient and if that means cutting things off for a wile then fairbe he’ll wait! and if needs be he’ll talk 2 the brother!
but girl doesn’t feel at ease of satisfied and fears the worst!
what would u advise the girl next??
thank you x