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he dont work in a garage hes about to open one up! and when u have acar a person ina garage fixes it so they cant b smelly!
amour what ur sayin is true....the boys side are comin down to well break the news insted...and they obviously wana get to know her side..and vice versa...that will take ages...so its along process...but redvelvet was right! good advise...along with a few others!!
thank u...
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Weak girls = losers.
If they girl really wants to marry this bloke she would unweaken herself and get a grip. If shes just going to give in away, i'd tell her to waste her time buying shoes not with boys.
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Jaaniya, keep us posted about the situation. And I hope that things turn out great for your friend. The guy's father seems like a really nice guy based on the fact that he's telling the girl that he'll take care of making a good impression on her parents. His father seems so nice that I hope the girl's parents will be open to getting to know them as well. Best wishes for a successful rishta ;)
Also, Jaaniya, I agree with your idea of telling the mom first.....waiting for parents to cool down........and then the guy and his parents should come over. I realized that if the guy and his parents come over BEFORE the girl tells her parents about him...........then her parents will be offended/hurt at the idea of her hiding her feelings/affair from them. They will view her as being "baysharam" and it can hinder any progress. So....your friend should tell the mom first......wait for mom to cool down......then they guy's family should come over.
When your friend says she's to scared to tell her mom, then tell her "Look, it's also stressful for a guy to make a positive impression on a girl's parents knowing that they are not crazy about him. And if he's willing to take that risk for you, then you need to uphold your part of the bargain and at least meet him half-way by telling your mom about him."
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hey redvelvet!! thanks 4 the advice!! i calle dmy mate today to see whats goin on and fill her in about what you said...and basically they guys dad has said they wont come 2moro..and that when she feels her fam is calm and happy mood then talk 2 mother and take everything that comes from them and then to let their son no what happened and then he'll obviously report it all to his parents and they'll take it from there...obviously its long process, but rememba i told u about her bro, wel his rishtaa got done final this week and now he has to get married 1st, and because she hasnt finished her studies yet will do in few months and then has another yr on top dependin on what she wants to do! soo shes wonderin whether to wait 4 her bros hoo haa to end or jus tell her mom because her weddin will b strayt after her bros!
either way the boys side will come after few weeks of her tellin her mom because that gives girls family time to accept the idea or think or even cool down! lol
i really admire her in laws but they have said that she has to obviously do her bit so they can do theres!
its gonna take a while ofcourse but she has really changed her mind set since i first opened this thread and thats down mostly to the advice ive got here!!
so thanks guys!!
and redvelet i'll defo keep u posted ok!!
thank u x
I'd advise the girl not to waste her time on a waste-man.
Only smelly people work in Garages.
harsh. my little brother is slightly autistic and it took him a long time to learn to read and write. but he's very good at practical stuff and loves cars. he's 17 now and he's been working in a mercedes garage in the summer's for a few years now.
the garage makes him smelly! not the other way around, duh.
Weak girls = losers.
If they girl really wants to marry this bloke she would unweaken herself and get a grip. If shes just going to give in away, i'd tell her to waste her time buying shoes not with boys.
Milly, how did i not notice you before. so much troof. i hope you're not this harsh with the kiddywinkles.
i can't stand weak minded people, especially girls. i just wanna give them a SLAP and tell them to GET A GRIP.
(this is off topic)
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stoppit!!! he has a showa right?!?! lol...so smell goes away!! theres some people who dont do any kinda hard work or work in conditions like garages and they stink!?! soooo....
but thats good 4 ur bro!! i hope he does well..ive got a cousin whos autistic too..hes about ermm 19?!? hes good wid his hands but socially he's weak...i guess these type of people soo have a strength of their own...
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Stoppit woman - jeez, your avatar is like gross. Ahhhhhhhhhhh.
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its chewing bubble gum lol