Re: Breaking Point
To me the breaking point is simple: When you have to go...you have to go...and than you only gooooooooooo...Period... :)
Re: Breaking Point
Asking a question does not always mean that there is some dark, underlying intent. So, thank you for the concern, but the question is simply a question.
I want to know what drives people to walk away. What makes them give up on what could be many years of effort?
It's sort of a round-about way of asking, "What do you value in your relationship?"
Re: Breaking Point
For those of you that have been through relationships.....what utimately was the breaking point?
What drove you to end it? What made you think that you would be better off on your own?
What was the final straw?
I guess lack of respect, trust and not being able to reconcile any differences.
Re: Breaking Point
To generalize it...I think when the expectations are not met...hmmmmmm... :D
Re: Breaking Point
To me the breaking point is simple: When you have to go...you have to go...and than you only gooooooooooo...Period... :)
Sounds like a bathroom break to me. Gotta go gotta go gotta go right now gotta go gotta go gotta go!!
Re: Breaking Point
For those of you that have been through relationships.....what utimately was the breaking point?
What drove you to end it? What made you think that you would be better off on your own?
What was the final straw?
When the realtionship is not working out, I usually notice that people fade away from each other, there is no formal announcement, no define moment.
If its a formal realtionship though (like Husb&wife) then it gets tricky. Even then its not the final straw, its where you are and where you are going, and you make a firm decision based on that fact.
You do not drive to an end, you begin the journey towrads the end and one day you realize that you are in the middle of the journey. After that realization, I guess its a matter of making a decision.
P.S. taking a U turn on that road is also a good decision, sometime.
Re: Breaking Point
Asking a question does not always mean that there is some dark, underlying intent. So, thank you for the concern, but the question is simply a question.
I want to know what drives people to walk away. What makes them give up on what could be many years of effort?
It's sort of a round-about way of asking, "What do you value in your relationship?"
in my personal experience, id have to say when silence took over. when we knew we had so much to say each other, n yet held back, weighing the consequences of bluntly saying what we intended to say.
and how you had to keep on bending backwards to please the other person. and eventually you had become a mirror image of them! it ws a 5 yr long journey, extremely painful to call it quits, but had to be done!
' love passes time.... time passes love' :)