According to my observation people get hurt after breakup.... both man or woman. The difference is that man have more things to distract themselves and woman have less things to get distracted. If a girl is doing job still she has to go back to home and spend time at home thinking about her break up and all. Men get busy in their jobs, start spending more time in office, and hangouts more with friends. Plus girls can cry openly if they get hurt but men can't.. people says "ary mard bhi kabhi rota hai"... or ... "zeher lagty hain mard roty howy" so he has to seem strong no matter how much he is hurt.
I believe if both parties are sincere with each other than they sort out all the problems in their lives and get married with each other. But if one party is not sincere, then things don't work out and other party has to suffer. So yes i believe that when there is break up, one party is not sincere or is at fault. period.
those that have been in that eternal lasting love what does it feel like when you are loved by that person. like a man in love with a woman? i'm serious here, not talking about infatuation but actual true love, how does that man treat you?
i'm just trying to see why it's so devastating when you lose that love.
3 months seems like a really short time to get over such a love, it took me that long just to get over an infatuation or crush
You never "get over" love, like you never forget if someone close to you dies. Yeah it is painful to the point you feel like you can't breathe anymore but life does not stop. Losing your love is a crucial point in your life and it can turn into a spiral of self destructive behavior if you do not have positive support around. Some find solace in religion, spirituality, family and friends. Some people are fortunate enough to find their healer who can bring them to feel life again, love again and be happy again.
ok but what makes them not forget that love how was she treated by the man that loved her? After that initial stage of talking on the phone until the wee hours of the morning stage of infatuation, you know the real true love that everybody talks about, the people that are happily in a relationship for 10-15 yrs and still madly in love with their Significant other, what is it like and how do they treat each other at that stage…
Hmm Nisha I am not sure what you are saying.....
Love is different for everybody… how they feel it, how it touches them and how it molds them. Like everyone does not express their anger in the same way, no two people express their love the same either.
And yes it does grows and mature with you.....
According to my observation people get hurt after breakup.... both man or woman. The difference is that man have more things to distract themselves and woman have less things to get distracted. If a girl is doing job still she has to go back to home and spend time at home thinking about her break up and all. Men get busy in their jobs, start spending more time in office, and hangouts more with friends. Plus girls can cry openly if they get hurt but men can't.. people says "ary mard bhi kabhi rota hai"... or ... "zeher lagty hain mard roty howy" so he has to seem strong no matter how much he is hurt.
I believe if both parties are sincere with each other than they sort out all the problems in their lives and get married with each other. But if one party is not sincere, then things don't work out and other party has to suffer. So yes i believe that when there is break up, one party is not sincere or is at fault. period.
Sometimes, no matter how sincere two people are with each other,there are many external factors which wouldn't allow them get married to each other,and the factors being, parents,families,etc etc..