pinkyy
April 20, 2011, 5:26am
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Re: Break-ups and moving on
According to my observation people get hurt after breakup… both man or woman. The difference is that man have more things to distract themselves and woman have less things to get distracted. If a girl is doing job still she has to go back to home and spend time at home thinking about her break up and all. Men get busy in their jobs, start spending more time in office, and hangouts more with friends. Plus girls can cry openly if they get hurt but men can’t.. people says “ary mard bhi kabhi rota hai”… or … “zeher lagty hain mard roty howy” so he has to seem strong no matter how much he is hurt.
I believe if both parties are sincere with each other than they sort out all the problems in their lives and get married with each other. But if one party is not sincere, then things don’t work out and other party has to suffer. So yes i believe that when there is break up, one party is not sincere or is at fault. period.
Sometimes, no matter how sincere two people are with each other,there are many external factors which wouldn’t allow them get married to each other,and the factors being, parents,families,etc etc..