boys views requested please

[K_Khan]

Re: boys views requested please

@PyariCgudia

Lollypop man, **maybe you need to build some trust in the relationship so that the female can be comfortable telling you **she’s done some screwing in the past.

I don’t think that’s the sort of thing you tell the guy that comes over with his family for a rishtaa traditional chai-party style, and you’ve never met the person before.

it goes both ways, doesn’t it?
I mean how could you expect ANYONE (regardless of gender) to volunteer all info about the past? UNLESS its mutual.

now back to topic:-

As Lollypopman said, key to success for any relationship is the mutual TRUST. She MUST share this info with her hubby, its better be coming out from her then sum1 else. But there is a catch, Ironically our society have two faces when it comes to other person they tend to insist that they should hide anything and if sum1 does hide all of us jump in to condemn. BUT if its about them then they tend to say PAST is PAST. I agree whats done in past shall not have any effect on FUTURE, but sadly it rarely happens.

I can only speak of myself, that whats happened in past is past and IF she is sincere about me and regrets on what happened in past then I dun think I have any moral reason left to dump her. After all I myself isn’t a saint!

All we can hope that she finds a reasonable person, not one of those hypocrates who screew around on every weekend and continue to do so EVEN after the marriage and when they find a girl with some past they call her a whore.