Re: boys views requested please
Man with a Plan: There aren't many guys, as you can see in this thread, who are open to putting the past behind them. Even guys who say they are, when it comes down to it, and they find their fiance telling them about her past, they might back out for it, or if she even tells him the first day she meets him, he might still back out. Very few men can digest the thought that "their woman" has been with someone else before. Very very very few can digest the thought that their woman has had sex with someone before. And it doesn't even matter if she's done a 180 degree turn from her experience. I am not surprised a lot of women keep mum. The day men grow up and learn to accept that women explore around just as much as men do prior to marriage, then you'll see more women opening up.
Its just so wrong when you see men rebuking perfectly cool women because they had a boyfriend before or some such nonsense.