Boys profiles : rishta hunt

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Re: Boys profiles : rishta hunt

@PyariCgudia

Believe it or not, the men who marry out of the religion…for them religion isn’t important in the first place, and more often than you think there never was a deal that the kids would be muslim. If mom never converts, and religion isn’t practiced in the home in the first place, the kids often do not end up muslim or are muslim just by name and are non-practicing.

People think somehow that the western muslims who are marrying out of their culture into the local population somehow are following the Quran’s guidance, and everything is peachy and their kids are all hijabi’s and mullah’s in the end.

That’s not the reality. For some it might be but for many others, families are disconnected from Islam. In fact, the guys who are disconnected to begin with are often found marrying out.

Or they’re just over-eager immigrants who are now realizing daughter dearest is following mom’s example and boozing it up on weekends.

HO-LY-WOW… …
I’m not sure what world you live in. Sure, there are probabaly some people who fit the picture you’ve painted… but how do you just generalize EVERYONE and say they’re all like that?

I know loadssss of Pakistani MUSLIM guys who have married women of other faiths. Some of the women converted to Islam, some didn’t. From the ones who haven’t, their children have Muslim names, say salam, know how to pray, understand the basics about Islam and it’s teachings, and some even take the extra step in taking their children to classes at their local Masjids.
Sure their kids aren’t all “hijabis and mullahs”, but they know who they are.

I’d go as far to say that some of the “non-traditional” families are more spiritual than the purebred Pakistani fam bams. yep. I went there. b-boy stance

Now, why am I bothered by your generalization? Because the people I’m referring to aren’t in just in one community. These people are spread between 5 different states.

I wish you didn’t let your emotions cloud your judgement as much as it does.