Boys profiles : rishta hunt

[Mezhgan]

Re: Boys profiles : rishta hunt

@Theorist

Nope, that’s not at all what I meant. Read.my.posts.again! If you have a pool of 1000 men to choose from, and 100 of them are Desi muslims. Say you have been looking at the 100 Desi muslims but at some point you give up because you can’t find the right guy or your parents don’t approve of any desi guys in those 100 guys. Now, you have moved on to the 900 guys…the pool of 1000 men now becomes 900.

Statistics aside, I don’t know if this has been addressed already but:

When people have suggested that Pakistani women look outside of their culture if they are having trouble finding someone, they did not state that women should STOP looking within the Pakistani community, but rather that they ALSO look at other Muslim communities IN ADDITION TO the Pakistani community, rather like:

Pakistani guys + Muslim guys of other ethnicities = Pool of eligible men

The two are not mutually exclusive. One can look at Muslims of other ethnicities while continuing to look in the Pakistani community.

On another note, oh dear, people are getting nasty.