Nope, that’s not at all what I meant. Read.my.posts.again! If you have a pool of 1000 men to choose from, and 100 of them are Desi muslims. Say you have been looking at the 100 Desi muslims but at some point you give up because you can’t find the right guy or your parents don’t approve of any desi guys in those 100 guys. Now, you have moved on to the 900 guys…the pool of 1000 men now becomes 900.