Boys profiles : rishta hunt

[kakaballi]

Re: Boys profiles : rishta hunt

@PyariCgudia

I agree, the good guys are probably looking elsewhere. Or actually, there are so few good guys, that they don’t have to look or make an effort. Often you hear guys complain about how they’ve reached a certain age and aunties are coming out of woodworks to set them up with someone.

The problem is that if we look around in our community, it’s very common to find guys who have 1) married out to non-muslim girls 2) are partying, and not marrying if they can help it 3) marrying nice mummy daddy girl from Pakistan and immigrating the girl in - seen more in the older families in the US, I noticed it’s becoming less popular with the younger crowd around here now that everyone recognizes the immigration is a headache

The rest of the guys aren’t good catches. Maybe my standards are way too high But I think if you’re looking for a guy who went to college, and has a stable steady job, I would THINK those aren’t too high standards.

Really, seriously, honestly, I do not understand all this.

If the aunties are coming out of woodworks to set up the ‘good guys’ with someone as soon as they reach a certain age, then is the gender ratio you told us might be a little off?

If the Pakistani community has many many good eligible girls, then why are ‘good catches’ looking elsewhere? Are they stupid? If they are stupid, then they are not good catches.

If they are not stupid, then maybe, there aren’t many many good eligible girls around and they have to look elsewhere?