Re: Boys Getting Married Young
The financial part of an early marriage can be worked out. You do what other college students do, use contraceptives ( religiously ). You delay having kids until you have a career, or have achieved whatever goals the two of you set for yourselves. The parents keep paying for college, like they would even if you were doing it the haraam way. This wouldn’t work though if the girls parents just wanted to get rid of her completely, and never planned to send her to college to begin with.
The bigger problem is compatibility. Your personality, your outlook on life might change a lot during your time in college. You’re still in the process of growing up, figuring out what you want from life. That’s why relationships formed at such an early age have a higher chance of failure. Now this wouldn’t be a problem if divorce wasn’t such a big thing and people weren’t obsessed with virginity so much.
It can work if people are smart about using contraceptives and divorce stops being such a Taboo. And just don’t register the marriage until you’re sure about it, might save you a lot of hassle in case things don’t work out. The possibility of it ending in divorce isn’t a strong argument because with marriage there’s always a chance of divorce.