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I dont think its being paranoid, today i saw the kid who was kissing my daughter on the cheeks yesterday, playfully kiss another elder girl on the lips, the slow type of kiss!! not once but 3-4 times and then they would giggle!
ok when do u think limit has reached ... for me it was too much and i will protect my 3 year old from such kids/boys, however paranoid it may sound.
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I have an 8 year old girl..i have found that in the past few years she will automatically stay away from boys, she is naturally distant from them as tehy have different interest...and she finds them repulsive and stupid.
i also have a 4 year old who doesn't like girls because they are not nice...and he usually plays with boys and not girls, he would rather play alone than with a girl...however he did develop an obsession with a little girl at nursery, which my whole family just played on...they used to wind him up and tell him he would marry her...i can't imagine anyone doing the same to my daughter..to my relief he is now over this phase.
as parents we need to set the boundaries....i have 2 boys and 1 girl..they will never get dressed in the same room...they know that they need to guard their bodies, and what 'sharam haya' is.
I really feel for you TLK...because i stress about my daughter i dont want her to grow up...the older she gets the more i stress and tv doesnt help...these days 6 year olds are more like 16year olds.
I pray that Allah enables us all to give our children a good Islamic upbringing InshAllah
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We all agree that children can go stray easily (may be because they have less control over their desires and they are more prone to hear Satan's whispers) and that's why I believe they need supervision of responsible adults at all time until a certain age, but it doesn't matter if they're only boys or only girls or in a mixed group.
And this protective behaviour comes naturally in parents so it has nothing to do with being born or raised in a different era or society, its natural so don't worry about being worried for your kids.:)
In other words, don't be paranoid about being paranoid about your children's safety, but also don't let your kids see your paranoid behaviour.
I really feel for you TLK...because i stress about my daughter i dont want her to grow up...the older she gets the more i stress and tv doesnt help...these days 6 year olds are more like 16year olds.
My older one who is going to be 7 in nov, is still in Sprout and Goodnight Show on PBS Kids, I will never let her watch that stupid Hanna Montana thingie. Another girl of my extended family of exactly my daughter's age is in that stupid show from last 2 years. Last time I saw her, she was pretending to be Hanna and dancing and gyrating her pelvic and throwing her hair forward by jerking her head and it was just too schocking.
I sometimes share your wish that my daughter stays a kid. I know its not a healthy wish, I know.
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^^ Omg!! you're too much...
Why are you mentioning pelvic jirations and 7 yr old girls?
jeez louise
Innocence really has been lost
My older one who is going to be 7 in nov, is still in Sprout and Goodnight Show on PBS Kids, I will never let her watch that stupid Hanna Montana thingie. Another girl of my extended family of exactly my daughter's age is in that stupid show from last 2 years. Last time I saw her, she was pretending to be Hanna and dancing and gyrating her pelvic and throwing her hair forward by jerking her head and it was just too schocking.
I sometimes share your wish that my daughter stays a kid. I know its not a healthy wish, I know.
That's just shocking and sad. Now what if someone comes along and tell you to let your kid watch that show because this is what a modern kid supposed to watch, what would you say in your answer?
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I agree with everything Muniya has said so far in this thread.
^^ Omg!! you're too much... Why are you mentioning pelvic jirations and 7 yr old girls? jeez louise
Innocence really has been lost
Because that stupid hanna montana does that and young girls dont know any better and follow that ..
have you seen the latest summer fashion of young adult girls nowadays. I can bet even you in your whole life never dressed up like that, what these young adult shows are teaching them to be dressed up like.
and what about the romantic situations and even kisses in those pre-teen sitcoms that disney airs.
You are lucky that you have a boy. Maybe that was the reason parents use to pray for boys :p
That's just shocking and sad. Now what if someone comes along and tell you to let your kid watch that show because this is what a modern kid supposed to watch, what would you say in your answer?
I am going to control what my Kid will be exposed to. So the answer is a big NO
My older one who is going to be 7 in nov, is still in Sprout and Goodnight Show on PBS Kids, I will never let her watch that stupid Hanna Montana thingie. Another girl of my extended family of exactly my daughter's age is in that stupid show from last 2 years. Last time I saw her, she was pretending to be Hanna and dancing and gyrating her pelvic and throwing her hair forward by jerking her head and it was just too schocking.
I sometimes share your wish that my daughter stays a kid. I know its not a healthy wish, I know.
i hate this stupid moti. sorry i have to spill it.
what do you mean even me?
Oh jeez I can totally see me kicking you right now.
She’s not a pre-teen why are you worrying about that abhi.
You’re loosing sleep over what? Just educated her and equipt her; I know I was super close to my mom and regardless of what impression you have of me () I was a decent kid. niks will take care of it. She’s good I know.
Now please no more pelvic anything please please please stop.
I may have a boy now (alhumdolillah) but I plan on a girl too inshahallah. Hence my interest in this thread
I am imagining you dressed up like hana montana and dancing like her ..
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don’t make me get Milly on you..
pervy pervinstein
Who cares about Milly. I am not afraid of her …
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