FF, if the friendship is solid, then he will not run away. The worst that can happen is that he will act weird for a few days and you will feel humiliated. Things will be back to normal after a few days though.
they stay just friends because they are lard ass, cheese smellin, hamburgers munchin, soda guzzlin, chips chippin machines. You will be damned if you date such guys
Matty kya tiger beat tiger beat lagaya huwa hei?
I wouldnt have such a guy for a friend either GD.
These are happenings when you are 14 not in your twenties. jesus friggin christ… live a little. have a fling with the “boyfriend” discard his used carcass in the wake of a 'badboy". Comeon Femme “molly ringwald” fatale. Do it.. :k:
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I don't think friends can be better partners/lovers, etc. I think it's easy to be friends than to be romantically involved with another person that's why we percieve friends to be so perfect in all aspects...in reality, they are not so different from other people we know(i think)...
I think we should just let friends be friends....they're too precious to be lost this way.....:)
I liked the way Jerry and Elaine pulled it off in Seinfeld…they had this, that and the other…and still remained friends.
But then again that was a sitcom..u try that theory on a desi girl in real life and gawd! I don’t know what to expect. 
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I think in a lot of cases, one of the two is too afraid of ruining the friendship which is why any attraction/sparks that are occuring are usually quelled before it gets out of control.
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could not put it better myself.
Re: Re: Boyfriends…
Dekh bay, I’m probably the only person around here who has the ability to laugh at himself (Madhanee comes second 
) and not get fretted over petty stuff but I do ask kay joke is well done. AveiN shurliyaaN tay koi vee chud sakda ay hawa che.
My male friends in college told us girls that if a guy is friends with a girl, he does or did at one time want to hook up with that girl.
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My male friends in college told us girls that if a guy is friends with a girl, he does or did at one time want to hook up with that girl.
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Maybe, they were only speaking about "themselves" :D
PS.
it's not always like that...:)
^ hehe yeah I don’t think it is either.
I tend to have weird friends.
Well, like hangs with like. 
no one told me that, i had to figure it out on my onw 
i used to think when i guy was like we are friends, he meant it 
FF is dropping hints to somebody.. tum sub yooNhi fikar maiN dublay hoa rahay ho..
but what if you do end up dating your special friend, and then things fall apart, what would you do? things do not remain the same. i would know. it is just crappy. and not only with me, i have so many friends that either dated or confessed their feelings to their best friends, and when it didn't work out, not only did it effect their relationship, the reprecusions of that were felt all around; it effects other friends as well.
Femme Fatale - It would seem to be the wisest choice... to go for someone who's already your best friend... but sometimes friends is all you are.
I think a guy and girl being close and best friends and nothing more is still something most people just can not understand!?
I think girls are more offended if a guy friend one day tells her he likes her... but from what I've seen most girls are kinda crazy anyways.. even when you don't like them they think you do just cause you treat them right.
I think there's a fine line between being close friends and something more... and it really comes down to what both people want.
Personally if I was a girl I would prefer a guy got to know me first and started liking me over time instead of approaching me as a stranger and being interested.. cause then I would be thinking? Interested in what ? You don't even know me!?
Also let's face it most people are on their best behavior and trying too hard too impress the person when they like them...where as with friends I'd like to believe most people are more natural and just themselves.
the best relationship is the one which grows out of friendship. give him a chance ff.
yeah i think the best relationships are based in friendship.
a friend of mine was complaining that she didnt want a marriage like her parents' because they were more like each other's best friends than passionate lovers.
i was like, what??? that sounds ideal! :p
Suroor, PA and all you other sillies, it's not about me. I wish I had such a friend who I had the hots for or who had the hots for me. Unfortunately I'm out of luck.
I agree with Sahar though. In most friendships one of the two have had feelings for the other but either never expressed themselves or did and got rejected because the other person is probably looking for the same qualities but in another person, maybe for the sake of novelty. But realistically speaking if u already know a person inside out wouldn't it be so much more convenient to to hook up with them instead of going through the whole song an dance all over again, finding someone, making sure that they suit your temperament and then popping the big question or waiting at their mercy to be asked!
Friendship may be at stake but its better to ask and find out then to wonder for the rest of your lives. "Love is not love which alters when it alteration finds" I true friend wouldn;t abandon you for something like that.
FF -- Lets say one of the pair wants qualities in spouse which her/his friend has. Now it would be wonderful if the other person finds the desired quality in him/her. But thats not always the case. Unfortunately, if one does go ahead and decides to take friendship to another level, he/she has to look what the other person looks for in his/her spouse becahse suppposedly he/she knows better being a friend.. right? And Ok, if things work out and they are in a relation ... fine? but the stakes are higher as expectations rise enormously from either side.
Though i personally think that its not a bad idea but chances are that either you will ruin your existing friendship or your relationship will be at high risk for the sometime in the beginning. But after a while, it wil be great :~D
I hope i made sense :~(