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A woman shouldn't need a man to make her feel complete and confident.
well husband and wife both of em complete each other and give confidence to each other.
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^ They do, but as Shak said, this thread isn't about the genuinely committed couples. I meant you shouldn't date just to make yourself feel complete.
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I like this girl, her attitude and honesty towards the topic .. all of you rest are being hypocrite
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^ They do, but as Shak said, this thread isn't about the genuinely committed couples. I meant you shouldn't date just to make yourself feel complete.
well everyone is going to have a different take on that. in my view, its much healthier for mind and body to be in a relationship regardless of wether it results in marriage or not.
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sure, that is why I said *you shouldn’t *instead of *you can’t.
and you mister 
Kabhi AV mein to aana.
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i** never had the intention of getting married to my husband when i first started dating him. i have been in 2 relationships before and **marriage was not the goal of that either. i dont know why anyone would view** dating as waste of time*. haivng a relationship makes you feel complete, confident and occupied.* most ppl don't date with the intention of marrying **that person, it only comes up later on when you are sure thats the one you want to spend your life with.
Shareef girls don't date casually, sorry. Your husband is one lucky guy. It may not be waste of time but surely is haram.
True, most date for sex!
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girls would not accept it .. .. they want to act as shareef .. let them live in their bubble .. ..
Shareef girls don't date casually, sorry. Your husband is one lucky guy. It may not be waste of time but surely is haram. True, most date for sex!
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Shareef girls don't date casually, sorry. Your husband is one lucky guy. It may not be waste of time but surely is haram. True, most date for sex!
I dont really give a crap about being "shareef" and live a repressed life. i didnt date for just sex but being in a relationship just feels so good.having someone take you out to dinners, shopping, talk on the phone for hours and not being lonely. im the kind of person who really depends on emotional support, i guess others would view dating mainly for sex, i dont.
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I dont really give a crap about being "shareef" and live a repressed life. i didnt date for just sex but being in a relationship just feels so good.having someone take you out to dinners, shopping, talk on the phone for hours and not being lonely. im the kind of person who really depends on emotional support, i guess others would view dating mainly for sex, i dont.
did you even try living a "Shareef" life? if not then how can you conclude it being repressed?
if yes, then your strategy needed some serious revision.
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did you even try living a "Shareef" life? if not then how can you conclude it being repressed?
if yes, then your strategy needed some serious revision.
shareef life as in not going out with guys, not having a boyfriend, always covered up, no sex? yup that sounds pretty repressed to me. And you dont have to live a shareef life to know how much it probably sucks. I have never been shot with a bullet either, does that mean i can't conclude that it must be painful?
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shareef life as in not going out with guys, not having a boyfriend, always covered up, no sex? yup that sounds pretty repressed to me. And you dont have to live a shareef life to know how much it probably sucks. I have never been shot with a bullet either, does that mean i can't conclude that it must be painful?
Your life style is your own choice. Don't synonymies sharafat with repression it would be same if some one labeled you life style choices as being slutty.
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^ ditto.
MissTY others are as happy in life without dating as you are with dating. They aren't oppressed they're having the time of their lives. And lahori, you also don't need to go around labelling people as shareef/not shareef.
Live and let live I guess.
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Wouldn't that come across as extreme immaturity though?
what's immature about it?
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Wah ji sharafat tay badmashi day title enj wand’day oh jiwein bari imam tay chaawal wandi day nay 
People have different perspective, concepts and ideas. Just because someone is dating doesn’t mean you can question their morals and character, and likewise if someone decides not to date doesn’t mean they are living a depressed and dejected life. Its a matter of personal preference and choice - a choice that doesn’t put a chip on your shoulder either way.
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For guys , they can show their toy around
For girl, its free lunches and ride to college.....oh did I mention free Godiva and Bunny on valentine's day?
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By GS standards I am a damn whore.
By European standards I am a ****ing saint.
What does that say about life?
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I think its pointless in my opinion. If he loves you...he will come and get you.
Wow
thats some serious words of wisdom.
all you girls, put that on your bedroom walls.
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it's culturally expected and accepted! I don't think it makes sense and it is pointless but it is a huge part of western culture! The "failed" relationships are not viewed that way...they are seen as experiences...and the fact that the person was your companion at some point in life.
It's like a boyfriend/girlfriend is as valid as a marriage is to our culture. that type of thing.
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So you're not alone?
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Shareef girls don't date casually, sorry. Your husband is one lucky guy. It may not be waste of time but surely is haram. True, most date for sex!
That is very unfair of you to classify her as "not shareef".
I remember when I first started going out with my SO, my long-term reason was to find someone to get married to. However, it didn't become clear until much later that we should, indeed, get married. In the beginning, it was just getting to know each other and being companions. It was the awesomeness of our relationship over a sustained period of time that told us both that we would make great life partners.