hmmm well we havnt spoken for a few days now... But moving on is easier said then done. But when i DO move on i jus dont wanna look back in regret..Like i should of been more patient? Do you get what i mean?
As many posters (including me!) have already said - You will be FINE and enjoy life girl. Stop stressing. Moving on is definitely a lot harder than said. You might have some closure to this whole saga if you let him know your thoughts and the reasons why you are going to move on though. Let him know that you will only be serious about this if HE is - and that is only by his parents taking this rishta seriously. You are a paki girl and its a respect issue. You are young, but you guys also do not have to get married right away. If his reaction is the same of what he has already told you in the past - then you should not have regret. You WILL SAD ...but atleast you know that you are doing what you are doing for the right reasons.
And as another person has said: sometimes one doesn't realize what they had until its gone.
Let him go - and dont look back (after you let him know you are doing this and are serious about this). You never know - he might pick up his game and have his dad call you dad. It is the boy's side that contacts the girl. You have done more than enough. If you never hear from him again - it was not meant to be... and DO NOT worry about that. It means you are yet to meet your prince charming :) If he does come back in a serious way (aka his dad ringing your family up) ....then you will have your answers that he is serious about you and this relationship. :)