Re: Boyfriend ISSUES!!
He might not be serious about marrying you, or he's not ready to commit yet. I hate it when guys don't have open and frank discussions about these topics, because you deserve an honest answer. If he's not serious, you should be spending your time exploring other options.
Just don't give him too much that you'll regret later. Stay reserved. If he so much as wants to hold hands, you tell him that you'll be more than happy to get physical after he commits and puts a ring on you...and that's where your morals stand. Likewise, financially and emotionally, don't invest in him too much until it is obvious this is going towards marriage. Remain friends with him, and keep in touch, but if you keep investing in your relationship and then it doesn't go anywhere - he basically got a free ride off you, and you'll feel used and abused at the end of the day.
Unfortunately, our Pakistani men are a pro at playing girls.