Re: boyfriend and weed.
He wants you but not enough to quit. If he lied to you about one thing then he could be lying to you about everything. At the end of the day he expects you to do the compromising while he gets what he wants. If you are prepared to accept one wrong thing then you maybe able to accept the rest as well.
Re: boyfriend and weed.
I am sorry , but I don't even know why you are in the relationship. If you told him 4 months into the relationship that he had to quit if he wanted to be with you, that shows that you take these things seriously, but then you didn't SHOW him that you do. At the end of the day he knows you will go back to him. So , make yourself strong girl, crying and getting hurt once, will be better than a lifetime of tears. :)
Re: boyfriend and weed.
Choor chori sa jaya . . . per hera pheri sa na jaya :D
Re: boyfriend and weed.
If you can't beat 'em, join 'em!
Start smoking weed with him. I am sure he will quit soon after that!
Re: boyfriend and weed.
he isn’t being honest or a forthcoming person by telling u the truth after 2 years 
He is fed up of the lying & doesn’t want the added stress of ur reaction if he get’s caught.
I’m sorry to say this but u need to have the strength to walk away from this, because addictions usually morph into worse things, right now weed is the problem tomorrow it could be something else. He isn’t willing to recognize that he has a drug abuse problem which needs cure .Recovery is a long and hard process but if he doesn’t think it’s an issue in the first place then hardly seems wise to ruin ur future no?
No reason u give him will be good enough until he feels it’s wrong. Know what cheater’s say? It’s not like I killed somebody I just cheated.
**It doesn’t matter what the wrong is, the justification of portraying it as insignificant is reason ****enough **for u to walk away.
I Know it’s going to be a battle of emotions for u and really hard especially since he is a guy who loves u. But he is choosing his addiction over u. and that will happen time and time again. what if it’s his addiction over ur kids lives/future?
Hope u think about the long term effects of actually living/marrying and ending up with a person who can’t be honest with u.
all the best 
Re: boyfriend and weed.
I've heard its much more fun when you make love after smoking weed, you should try it.
Re: boyfriend and weed.
and what's more troubling is that he may think this sort of "lifestyle" is nothing to worry about......it's a slippery slope
exactly muzna.
i dont know if the OP knows this, but weed does not cause addition, not on a psychological physical level. Nothing at all like cocaine and other stronger drugs. Weed is just a matter of SELF RESTRAINT. Like giving up tea, or a particular brand of cold drink. Not even as bad as giving up smoking. Leaving smoking is way tougher than leaving weed.
From what I have seen this is becoming culture in Pakistan but mostly in college life. It generally stops afterwards. But then there is a druggie crowd which doesn't ditch the habit.
Re: boyfriend and weed.
I've heard its much more fun when you make love after smoking weed, you should try it.
Hey ... How is your life panning out ... We didn't talk after last time?
Re: boyfriend and weed.
Weed smoking is a habit ... Psychological addiction more than a physical one ... They have now got proof that it lowers your memory, increases impatience, and can lead to mental illnesses. Smoking is bad anyway ... For the lungs. Just find another boyfriend and tell your first one that you can't help yourself and that you want to keep him but you also want to keep you new boyfriend as well ...
Let's see how he feels when he put in situation to decide .... Like you have been out ...
Re: boyfriend and weed.
exactly muzna.
i dont know if the OP knows this, but weed does not cause addition, not on a psychological physical level. Nothing at all like cocaine and other stronger drugs. Weed is just a matter of SELF RESTRAINT. Like giving up tea, or a particular brand of cold drink. Not even as bad as giving up smoking. Leaving smoking is way tougher than leaving weed.
From what I have seen this is becoming culture in Pakistan but mostly in college life. It generally stops afterwards. But then there is a druggie crowd which doesn't ditch the habit.
Agreed. However, studies have shown it's people with high IQs who tend to try recreational drugs in adulthood. It's interesting.
As for the OP's problem, without knowing the guy I couldn't say for sure. I know people who occasionally smoke weed with friends. It's not a daily thing. Some of these people are normal, others are a bit sketchy. I personally wouldn't lie about smoking weed because once you smack people in the fact with the facts about weed (compared to cigarettes, alcohol and even sheesha), they don't have much to say. I think this guy's lying might be more of an issue than the weed.
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Hey ... How is your life panning out ... We didn't talk after last time?
I posted the update on the thread.
Re: boyfriend and weed.
Sorry, you guys have never had weed and yet you’re telling the OP that its not an addiction? I’ve seen it first hand and its as bad as “normal” drug users.
Is Marijuana Addictive? It Depends How You Define Addiction | Healthland | TIME.com
10 Signs of Marijuana Addiction - The Canyon
For the Loved Ones of Marijuana Addicts - Marijuana Anonymous
Re: boyfriend and weed.
Agreed. However, studies have shown it's people with high IQs who tend to try recreational drugs in adulthood. It's interesting.
I'd hazard to guess that people with higher IQ's are using recreational drugs in adulthood because they can afford to......not because it's the "smart" thing to do or because it's not harmful.
And kakee is right.......weed is an addiction, just depends on what you want to term as an addiction.