if you have an education and want to pursue career, why do you have kids in that time, why not wait, like alot of gorey, until they are done with their careers, and then have kids/try for kids. you can have both, as long as you can cope with both.
how would you feel if you overheard/realised** your parents were not as happy with the situation** as they let you think/as you think.
and maintaining a decent family life is what? i think handing them over the ANYONE 5 days a week, 9 hours a day, is not decent family life. my opinion, i am entitled to.as you are yours.