Actually we paid our way, ta very much, and its for 3 months,..are you seriously comparing, so i guess when the rent lease expired we should have just laid down on the streets…and another thing, my parents FORCED us beforehard NOT to leave, and wait a year while we gain financial savings etc and then move out, however we didnt want to be a BURDEN on them,however nicely put, AND we moved out…nothing was free, we already knew and discussed that. parents also had 3 extra bedrooms free…not like i was kicking out my brothers and ssiters.
my point again your missing.
is not that parents CANT EVER look after ur kids, of course they can, my point is when its a routine, when its like a job for them, daily, day in day out, and 5 days a week, certain times every day…its a JOB…
me and my husband not only paid our way, but did a whole lot more because of this. and my parents certaintly were not LOOKING AFTER US`…its not the same looking after that they would have done had i given them a baby, 5 ndays week 9 hours a day…