both parents work, kids with inlaws?

[Reha]

@hareem01

So it’s okay if I say “Reha, I feel you can never become a good wife”?

No, it wasn’t, she said " know of a few people, who have kids and then give them to the parents of the girl/boy to look after for many days a week, 5 days a week, because both parents are working, i even know someone who had her kids live with her mum, because she didnt hve time to look after her own kids**. then the girls mother and father moved to wales, and she told the mum to take her daughter with her…so the girls daughter lives with her nanni…in wales…and her parents are here in london working…**

i find this rotten, its not anyone but the parents of the kids job to look after their own kids, otherwise dnt have them

i also know of people who both work, yet spend the entire months salaries on child care…whats the point…"

She has some good points and she’s talking about people around her not all the working mothers on gupshup.

Hareem dear, since I have no idea who you are and vice versa…I dont know if I would take offense to that. In fact, I would hardly take your comment seriously. We have such differing views/experiences…useless to give it a second thought…it is a fun Life1 topic though so thanks for that.

She definitely has some good points for people who dont have to work and have the luxury of staying home…and thats about it.