both parents work, kids with inlaws?

[hareem01]

@Reha

Its okay if its disappointing to some…been there myself. We all have differing views and I guess thats the beauty of it.

So it’s okay if I say “Reha, I feel you can never become a good wife”?

@Reha

The issue: it was a general blanket post about all working mothers. I dont understand why when you dont even know how your life will be as a mother. How can you be so opinionated about something you know nothing about?

Is it so horrible? I cant imagine it being any more horrible than judging women who have to or want to work. Practically all the women I know are working mothers and not a single one of them is negligent or irresponsible.

No, it wasn’t, she said " know of a few people, who have kids and then give them to the parents of the girl/boy to look after for many days a week, 5 days a week, because both parents are working, i even know someone who had her kids live with her mum, because she didnt hve time to look after her own kids**. then the girls mother and father moved to wales, and she told the mum to take her daughter with her…so the girls daughter lives with her nanni…in wales…and her parents are here in london working…**

i find this rotten, its not anyone but the parents of the kids job to look after their own kids, otherwise dnt have them

i also know of people who both work, yet spend the entire months salaries on child care…whats the point…"

She has some good points and she’s talking about people around her not all the working mothers on gupshup.

If you disagree with someone then don’t even reply to her and if you do then try to convince her logically instead of coming up with insults and taunts.