both parents work, kids with inlaws?

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@nadz123

if you have an education and want to pursue career, why do you have kids in that time, why not wait, like alot of gorey, until they are done with their careers, and then have kids/try for kids. you can have both, as long as you can cope with both.

how would you feel if you overheard/realised your parents were not as happy with the situation as they let you think/as you think.

and maintaining a decent family life is what? i think handing them over the ANYONE 5 days a week, 9 hours a day, is not decent family life. my opinion, i am entitled to.as you are yours.

nadz, how do you know that your parents were as happy and OK with letting you and hubby stay in their home and invade their privacy indefinitely until he found a job? they may have just “let you think” they’re happy having you in the home, but fact is, the presence of a damaad is always awkward, uncomfortable for the inlaws and makes everything more formal and def restricts your mom in being comfy in her own home having a damaad around.

point is…we all use our relatives, especially parents, in time of need. sometimes its easy for them to help sometimes its alot more difficult…but thats the thing with parents. they’ll always be happy to help you no matter how difficult it gets for them and thats called “unconditional love.”