How important is body shape to men? Does a dubli patli, slim girl with a good face (yet uncurvy figure) have an advantage over a thicker, more curvy, girl with an average face? What do guys have to say about this? Physical attraction is important, so I’m just curious.
I’ve always been naturally slim all my life, and I sometimes feel sad that my figure is not so full naturally, and hips not so wide. But what DO men like? Wide hips, fuller curvier shape? Or can a good face and slimness be sufficient even if it’s not followed by a lot of curves?
Usually every shape is attractive to different people.
while curves are almost always desirable, not every woman has them--as long as you groom yoruself properly and dress nicely, someone's bound to be attracted to yuo.
Usually every shape is attractive to different people.
while curves are almost always desirable, not every woman has them--as long as you groom yoruself properly and dress nicely, someone's bound to be attracted to yuo.
I just has to red and bold this for truth! And hey, even if no one does like you, yer mam loves yer so it's all good!
I just has to red and bold this for truth! And hey, even if no one does like you, yer mam loves yer so it's all good!
hahaha yeah ... thank god for mamas!!
stop worrying about what men like and worry about learning to accept yourself and loving yourself. That is more important. men will follow.
This sounds like a really stupid question, but I wanna know.... for those of us that are a bit insecure, exactly what steps should be taken to accept and love yourself? I am my harshest critic. I only see flaws in myself and have a very hard time accepting compliments without downplaying them or saying... "thanks but i wish such and such were better"
too much information about your body structure, why dont you simply post your fb profile link / picture here so we all could get better idea of your curviness.
In general, men are more visual and easily attracted to beautiful women, but that does not mean all men will carry same idea of beauty. Like KKF is more toward personality than a physical attraction Being dupli patli/slim is always advantageous but that doesnt mean you are complete. You still need to groom yourself and create curves in your body at right area. For that you can join gym.
Your next paragraph is TMI and I would not like to comment on that. kiya hai rozy main aaisay thread kiyon kholtay ho. kuch to khuda ka khoof karo.
This sounds like a really stupid question, but I wanna know.... for those of us that are a bit insecure, exactly what steps should be taken to accept and love yourself? I am my harshest critic. I only see flaws in myself and have a very hard time accepting compliments without downplaying them or saying... "thanks but i wish such and such were better"
Takes time. You need to do a thorough self-assessment of yourself, your qualities, internally and externally. I started 3 years ago and it's an ongoing battle but I tell you, there is a huge difference between who I was then and who I am now. Insecurities are still there, but there is a huge increase in confidence. You need to know yourself and really learn about yourself. Most people don't really know themselves cause they don't want to take that deep (and scary) look inside .... there are a lot of self-help books out there that can guide you.
I no longer look in the mirror and despise what I see. That, in itself, is huge progress.
Curvy or non- curvy, it doesnt mattar to me, as long as a girl has amagzing back, knows how to sit with her back striaght & know what it takes to wear backless saree.
Being dupli patli/slim is always advantageous but that doesnt mean you are complete. You still need to groom yourself and create curves in your body at right area. For that you can join gym. 
