No worries.
lol, my bad.
Thats right :ASA:
Agaya mera bodyguard 
Re: Blurring the lines between right and wrong...a new trend
I didn't think a simple misunderstanding warrated a dunda. hmmm interesting
really.
That is right.
PS: I am gone. Dont want to kicked out. :nono:
Maine itni lambi post likhi us pe koi comment nai likha ja sakta tha? Agaya flood karnay 
One word … Bongiyaan 
nuff commenting 
Now back to topic everyone . 
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Reha, I once saw a youtube video of the Imaam of the Khaana Kaaba, he was reciting the Quran on the mic and he read a verse that suddenly made him cry so bad!!! He was literally shivering with fear! I can't rememeber the exact verse but basically he was crying because he had realised he "wasn't saved" .
The Imaam of Khaana Kaaba! Who spent like 70% of his life in Allah's house, making the calls for prayers, reciting the Quran, etc etc etc.... realised he was NOT saved!
So I know for a fact that I'm going to hell, dude. I know what I do wrong, I acknowledge when I commit a sin e.g. listening to music.
Saints here on GS, who will not allow anyone to tell them they're going to hell, even when they're walking around half naked, drinking, dating, etc etc need to get real with themselves, as u said.
And yes, there is a proper way of daawah. Never raise your voice is the first rule. Followed by, never raise your eyebrows, never criticise, never fight. I certainly disapprove of walking up to somebody in a room full of people and telling them they're going to hell. I was talking about how even if u write something like XYZ is against islam (for example, valentine's day) people would eat u for it!
I'll attempt to comment on your lambi post.
It is very strong image to imagine the Imaam crying because he thought he was not saved. It is a lesson for us all to take, that someone so pious felt that he isn't saved, then what chance do we stand? Like youself, I listen to music. I also watch tv and movies. If those are all haraam, then I'm pretty doomed as well.
I guess the lesson with the Imaam is we all have to strive to make changes to get us closer to God, and keep on the right path. And we all have things we can fix about ourselves.
^ thank you wipes tears
Nami is a bully
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Re: Blurring the lines between right and wrong...a new trend
^ chup ho ja hun
If something is wrong according to Islam, its wrong...thats all there is to it.
People can choose to do what they want and ignore it, no one will hold them accountable aside from Allah swt. Its a free world; none of us are playing God by stopping someone from doing what they wish.
By all means: have a boyfriend, wear whatever you want, go wherever you want with whoever you want.
But DONT try to call it "halal" by slanting the situation. Its not "halal" and thats the bottom line. Islam is pretty clear about its guidelines and since none of us are the best of Muslims...the least we can do is leave those guidelines alone and stop trying to blur them.
Ever come across this? Where someone is obviously doing something wrong but justifying it with Islam in every way to try and feel better about themselves?
Not so much in recent years, but OMG in college these type of people used to drive me NUTS. Especially a few girls who used to wear hijab were sooo hypocritical. (Disclaimer: this is limited to ONLY those girls, I am not generalizing). I didn't consider myself super religous but definitely was moderate in the way I dressed etc. I remember once I was catching/throwing a football with some guy friends, and 2 of the "sisters" felt the need to come up to me in front of friends and give me a huuuuuge lecture about what I am doing is haram. Basically throwing the football causes me to jiggle and they would be attracted to me...i was like holy crap u gotta be kidding me....righ tin front of them..i was never so embarassed!!!
Mind you these gals always wore skin tight clothes, ALWAYS with guys, even one on one having coffee/lunch but THAT was OK because they happened to be muslim guys.....whatever. Later I found out at least one of them was dating the brother, and even caught them with PDA....where they thought they were safe. Yeah.
im gonna go with haraam here.
i googled and found a fatwah muahahaha.
i would like to caution religious jedis barbiecue and jimmy kambal from flirting with each other so openly too. 
Re: Blurring the lines between right and wrong…a new trend
Alhamdulillah i’ve never been guilty of saying that a haraam thing is halal or ok or whatever, u could get doomed for that as well, even if u didnt do that act or sin..
i knw a girl from my college who doesnt wear hijab, dresses up like..erm u knw, the new trend…and actually got pi$$ed off just because an apparently mullah type guy asked her whether she was a muslim or not, she goes like why does he want to tell me whats right or wrong:frusty2:in islam u’re not forced to do anything and if i want to dress up like that it’s my free will, what matters is my iman:mad:…and i was like urrmm ok relax!..he didnt even lecture her or anyhthing, just tht question:hmmm:…wonder why she felt guilty:rolleyes:
ps dont pounce on me, by using ‘you’ in my post i certainly dont mean ‘you the reader’
don’t make me flood queerio… the bodyguard bit goes back to another thread (the handsome guppy one, where we could see Jimmy’s dolay and I had jokingly said i’d hire him as my bodyguard). Aiwin fazool gallan
Afro Sheen: hahahah I was actually laughing at the “SISTERS” . Bechari afro 
Sa-Nafooz: Trust me, I know 
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Sister BBQ,
this is exactly what flirting with a namehram is. Please don’t try to justify it as “fazool gallan.” :nono:
Ki faraq paenda ae, mein tey already jahannami an! Another justification for you right there!
Re: Blurring the lines between right and wrong...a new trend
STOPPPPPPPPPPPP THE FLOODING!