Hey PSquared :)
I think what Haimeradil is trying to say is that she thinks your friend Anna perceives her husband to be better/richer than yours (out of jealousy and insecurity). I'm assuming that Haimeradil is wording things in an exaggerated way from what she thinks might be Anna's insane perspective. I think the way Haimeradil worded it just went completely wrong :o without thinking, i guess.
The way you've described your fiance in some of your posts....he seems like an awesome guy. Who knows and who cares what Anna thinks. The girl seems like a character.