Could be but i just asked because the guys mother had doubts that he was bewitched and all.
Unable to think rationally about what?
Peace teelobhain
Actually there are cases when men marry women out of attraction and then realise that there is no depth to the marriage. Sometimes men want more out of the marriage, such as to be treated with respect that some women stop doing after some time in marriage because the formality ends, other men want to develop their relationships and the women may want to develop their relationship in a different direction. It can be that he chose his friend because he realised that he may have more in common with her. That later on compatibility was more important to him than looks.
You know there are a whole array of possible reasons that do not include black magic. I would suggest that you ask the man why and he may give you a reasonable answer.
One tell tale sign of enchantment i.e. black magic would be that a person stops thinking or is unable to think rationally. This is brought out of extreme mental confusions which can occur from various agents and influences.
Well which desi mother is gonna blame her son for being wrong? The only way they can take it, is to blame other people, when no one is there to blame then they start to blame things like black magic for the odd or bad decisions by their sons.
I take it you are not a mother yet! Perhaps you are not even married yet ... I dunno
When a mother says "it must be black magic" then take that to mean "he's wrong I know, what can I say, I wasn't a good enough mother to teach him about values in marriage and I let him gain too much self-worth that he doesn't value my opinion"
Black magic is a satanic art and satanic works cause confusion. When you see dire/serious and unhealthy states of confusion, that resembles paranoia or if a person can't see a perspective even with clear demonstration and explanation then it could either be a real mental illness or magic, which is in effect an illness as well but artificially induced. We need to realise in a time before modern pharmacology, psychology and medicine it was difficult to classify black magic - Today we can interpret black magic to mean these arts used in evil ways in order to influence the minds of people.
In addition to this there are attempts to interact with the demon world by people and the extent of this interaction will be sending out agents to lead people towards harm by whispers, so all of a sudden people start to think with evil intentions, or in some cases for future events to be told which could be mixed with lies. Either way it is often hard to detect the difference between medical conditions and actual Jinn/magic influence. However we should understand the matter with a modern frame of reference and there is actually not much difference between the two.
i have a doubt tht someone i know has been a victim of black magic but if i tell tht person he/she jus wont believe it..how can u confirm it?
signs are:
2 deaths in immediate family member in less than 2 years (sister & father)
got admission in one of the best uni in the world but bcuz of the most tiny thing i dint happen
got a job in the best comapany in the world but as soon as it happened something in HR happened n his case got stuck
Although the person is very active they constantly under mental pressure and hav body pain at the age of 25 (the person is fit)
This jus keeps getting to me n although in my family its so not common , the whole black magic thing but im not ruking out the possibility...am i just wayyy out of line or maybe there is a chance? but if you would hav seen how things jus going fine end up suddenly going rong for the most insignificant thing u'd know my concern is only logical
i have a doubt tht someone i know has been a victim of black magic but if i tell tht person he/she jus wont believe it..how can u confirm it?
signs are:
2 deaths in immediate family member in less than 2 years (sister & father)
got admission in one of the best uni in the world but bcuz of the most tiny thing i dint happen
got a job in the best comapany in the world but as soon as it happened something in HR happened n his case got stuck
Although the person is very active they constantly under mental pressure and hav body pain at the age of 25 (the person is fit)
This jus keeps getting to me n although in my family its so not common , the whole black magic thing but im not ruking out the possibility...am i just wayyy out of line or maybe there is a chance? but if you would hav seen how things jus going fine end up suddenly going rong for the most insignificant thing u'd know my concern is only logical
^ This can be buri nazar more then the black magic - My mum once told me that Even evil eye can cause lots of tensions and mishaps in ones life...My family has been through it...no deaths though Mashallah..but stuff like that has happened and Quran has helped so i suggest that you tell that person to read the quran on daily basis and if they cant do that at least play a cd/cassette of Quran daily.
The mother didn't say that much she just had doubts and had these dreams on some woman in white giving her warnings and right after that her blood pressure went high and she got hospitalized and all. The guy actually didn't like that girl at all as a wife etc before and all of a sudden right after he got married to his childhood sweet heart without any fights or anything everything took a 180 degree turn etc...that was the only reason why i asked...
If these are the only signs of being bewitched then i guess its easy to find out whether someone is under a spell or not - but then again there have been cases where a lot of the Alims have noticed a person being enchanted but yet the person under a spell doesn't even know. This guys situation is one but i have heard a lot of many other people where the guys have said no to a certain thing but all of a sudden they're madly in love...they don't feel the confusion...there are times when a sane person is taking all the right steps but all of a sudden he starts doing everything wrong and things which are so no rational...someone even came to our house and said that its under a spell...i.e. the house is drowning under black magic spells...Things went wrong and crap happened and there were a lot of signs of people being unhappy, irritated, depressed etc as well...but one never knows...whats all that? It can be said that its Evil eye as well but don't know...and a lot of my family memebers are religious...and pray 5 times a day as well especially my grand parents - My grandfather is a regular tahajjud reader as well and recites the quran loudly at fajr time every day Mashallah.
So cant really say, how does a Jinn/Satan influence someone? Change their decisions as an individual thats out of my comprehension and how can one not know? Or find out? I can understand the causing distress in someones life and all i have also heard about black magic killing people...a family's 5 sons were killed that way.
^ Peace teelobhain
Well which desi mother is gonna blame her son for being wrong? The only way they can take it, is to blame other people, when no one is there to blame then they start to blame things like black magic for the odd or bad decisions by their sons.
I take it you are not a mother yet! Perhaps you are not even married yet ... I dunno
When a mother says "it must be black magic" then take that to mean "he's wrong I know, what can I say, I wasn't a good enough mother to teach him about values in marriage and I let him gain too much self-worth that he doesn't value my opinion"
Black magic is a satanic art and satanic works cause confusion. When you see dire/serious and unhealthy states of confusion, that resembles paranoia or if a person can't see a perspective even with clear demonstration and explanation then it could either be a real mental illness or magic, which is in effect an illness as well but artificially induced. We need to realise in a time before modern pharmacology, psychology and medicine it was difficult to classify black magic - Today we can interpret black magic to mean these arts used in evil ways in order to influence the minds of people.
In addition to this there are attempts to interact with the demon world by people and the extent of this interaction will be sending out agents to lead people towards harm by whispers, so all of a sudden people start to think with evil intentions, or in some cases for future events to be told which could be mixed with lies. Either way it is often hard to detect the difference between medical conditions and actual Jinn/magic influence. However we should understand the matter with a modern frame of reference and there is actually not much difference between the two.
I just want to share my own story. I am no longer married to the father of my child. My marriage ended within a year and it was the most painful and horrible period of my life. I don't know how a person can be so cruel. Many many people have told me that my ex was under the influence of black magic. When I was married to him he used to see snakes in his dreams. He even once saw egg yolks in front of our door step and saw me walking over them but I never saw such a thing. He was the most paranoid person I have ever come across. He was always doubting everyone for doing black magic on him. Many a times he did not allow me to eat food sent by his own family members. The days I lived him I found him a very unpredictable person 1 days he would be very caring and the next day he would be abusive. During our last days he ended up of accusing me of things I never did I don't know if that was intentional or he actually believed on them. He often used to have very very bad body odor & that odor was not normal .Whatever his mother or sister said was a pathar ki lakeer I never saw the ability of judging right and wrong by him. I always say he was a blind man he was unable to see good things as if he is mentally retarded to understand normal human feelings or emotions. I think animals have much more understanding than my ex had.
I don't mean to do his gheebat over here I am done and over with him . I am just trying to mention what I witnessed I really don't know if it was black magic or not but it destroyed our family.
^ I am sorry to hear about your experience but Whatever you said almost matches what that sheikh in the given link said about black magic...so i guess it was black magic after all...