Thanks TLK. Scary stuff. So what is actually happening. Suppose I am 20 km away from a black hole. At t =0 I see person a going in. So that person frozen from my perspective. But that person at event horizon. So for him time keeps moving. And he gets sucked in.what then. Does he cease to exis10 min later person b at event horizon.do I see person b also frozen. Or as time has Ettie still I only see person A?