Birth controle & Islam

[Paheli00]

Re: Birth controle & Islam

@inspiron

The thing is STA i think you have taken small bites of information from various sources some maybe correct and some incorrect and jumbled them all together etc

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@ehl-e-chamman

You don’t get my confusion because you are seriously misinformed and happily spreading your misinformation on a public forum. do us all (and the woman in your life) a favor and read up on female menstrual cycles, methods of birth control (pay particular attention to HOW they work), their effect on risk of various cancers and perhaps even some academic articles on the PHYSIOLOGY of male/female pleasure.

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The way a statement is worded make a big different on how the message is perceived. If someone is going to make blanket comments regarding medical issues (specially medications causing cancer and other side effects), it really needs to be referenced by some type of link that establishes a basis for those claims. And if someone can’t or won’t provide reference material, at least state whether or not that statement is based on personal experience…OR at least state that they’re not 100% sure. Whether its BCPs causing cancer or some other type of horrible condition…or sperms providing more pleasure to women…neither “issue” is that simple. And that initial statement totally ignored MANY, MANY other factors that play a major role in both of those situations.

As for the 2nd part of initial statement that got all the “fun” started…this is just me being weird but as a woman, I’m always amused when men state comments as facts as to what feels good to a woman during sex (I would’ve had the same reaction if a woman said something similar regarding what men experience too).

Yelly: As several people already stated, the birth control issue is something you need to discuss with your husband. And what FORMS of birth control are appropriate for you is something you need to discuss with your husband and your doctor. As for sperm providing more pleasure part…sex is different for every couple. What gives a woman (and the man!) pleasure depends on many factors (not just the presence or absence of sperm). What feels good to me may feel horrible to you. So at the end, this is something you’ll need to find out through personal experience.