Birth controle & Islam

[Paheli00]

Re: Birth controle & Islam

@Yelly

I see many of you dont read first what exactly was said and make up an image what you want. You are so typical.

First of all I wanted to know what is allowed in Islam using contraception.

Thats reason that I didnt talked about it to MY LOVE & gynocologist, because I felt the need to know FIRST what ISLAM says about it.

After that I began about MY preferences, yes I dont want to use a condom and pills if islam allows something like implanon.. If I feel thats easier for me, then Why not?

I think there is nothing wrong with doing something what you like if you do it in limits.

**Typical example of not having the ability to think out of the box.

Take my advice: next time pay some attention when you read and please think twice**!

Hahahaha…really? Is that the best you can do with personal insults? At 21 you’re quite a bit younger than I am so I’ll let all the snide comments slide due to your lack of experience with LIFE in general.

See…the problem with every single one of your posts is that its all about YOU. It’s always “I”. Not one single time have you stated anything beginning with “we”(ie. no mention of the man you’ll be having sex with). This may seem like a major shock to you but in a marriage…it’s about partnership. Especially issues related to sex and childbearing…in a healthy marriage…BOTH people have a say in it. Do yourself and your future husband a big favor and stop thinking in terms if “I”. It’ll save BOTH of you from a lot of arguments and stress in the future.

As far as contraception is concerned…pills and implants both have their potential side effects. Condoms also have their potential side effects (ie. being interrupted). Making a decision on what specifc contraception should be used without discussing it with the man who will be having sex with you is disrespectful towards him b/c it shows a total lack of regard for HIS opinions.

Oh and also, don’t ASSUME things about your fiance/husband. If you have not asked him about his thoughts on this…then how do you know for a fact that your fiance doesn’t know what Islam says about this? How do you know he himself has not already done the research on this as far as Islam is concerned? Once again, ASSUMING that he does not have the knowledge you’re seeking is disrespectful towards him.

And yes, I look forward to reading more about what YOU want and what YOU think (since you haven’t bothered to discuss this with your fiance due to YOUR personal reasons…at this point all you can really talk about is YOU regarding the issues that will also effect your fiance).