Sex is a biological need Just like food, or going to the bathroom, its also controllable like, not eating food or holding it in. The question is this; if a woman approaches a man and hits on him pretty directly implying she wants to have sex; chances are that men will be like ok “wooo weee let go for it”. I am talking general mature men not the Guppies here that are shy and pretentious. Now if a man were to approach a woman and casually ask the same question, chances are he is going to get slapped squarely. Why is it that sex is more sacred to women than men, but then what about the woman asking for sex Or is it that women have double standards?
Just a general question.
PLEASE KEEP RELIGION, PAKISTAN, MUSLIM vs KAFIR etc. OUT OF THIS. Childern can go to cafe or play in arcade.
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"what"!
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Mo3 slapped you? :-o
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^^ LOL Nothing to do with MO3 MS? Just a general question. I walked with Madhanee to meet CM and Matsui, and while walking this question occured to me.
Madhanee it has nothing to do with your southern twangy accent either.
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Well from what I've seen here in the US anyway, is that yes, sex IS more sacred to females than it is to males. Guys just like to do it and it can hold no value for them other than fleeting fun. Gals are much more likely to do it only with someone they feel love (or at least a great deal of affection) for. Except for my pal on the gymnastics team but she was a piece-a-work, not your typical female. Anyway,I think that this also GENERALLY has a basis in genetics and nature....men do the "invading"...women are "invaded"... Men are hunters....women are keepers of house and home. Women need to get themselves "good hunters" and keep them around. The hunters need to roam to get the food. The hunters are also inclined to procreate....I'm talking about not only humans but much of the animal world too. No offense to anyone intended.
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ps....hey verizon saab is there some s1ut hitting on you???? Point her out, mama rip her to shreds.
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MO3 so you are of the opinion that sex is sacred to females and not males (except the pretentious Guppies)?
And no, no one is hitting on me. I am big boy I know to say "Just say No to Sex", remember I came around the time when Nancy Reagan was telling the public "Just say No to drugs". Same rule just substitute drugs with sex.
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Verizon: you should walk less and take more cabs.
One of my very good friends had a related musing...analogous to your question .something akin to "if a tree falls in teh forest and no one is there to hear it fall...did it fall?" I told him that depends on the tree. :D
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Yes I know you are responsible and honorable, mama just doesnt trust some of the gals out there....
and I didnt say that sex is NOT sacred to men, just that men are much more capable of seeing it as a fun activity....women are more inclined to see it as an expression of love or at least a great deal of caring. There are exceptions of course but thats a general view that I have. And I'm talking about women and men who are not "otherwise attached"....ie., the single population.
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Religion aside, I am keeping it out of this thread for a reason. Keeping love out of this also, seems as though this is just about casual sex, sooooooo......
I don't think it is more sacred to women, a lot of times a woman can be tempted, but for women the price is higher.
ALSO men will brag to any and all that he had this one or that one. Pretty soon the whole city knows that that one does such and such because she likes it, the sl*t. Also, some men figure that it is ok to take what they want from a female he thinks is loose, after all she had a fling with so and so.
It is a whole different mentality for women. A man get slapped on the back, a woman gets called names. A men can brag about the sheer numbers of women he has had, a woman is thought of as worthless. A man is brought up to sow his oats, a woman to guard her "treasure".
Women have urges, just ask my husband. We just have to deal with a lot of pressure and negativity if we let loose.
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If I want it, Ill get it. not loose, just easy :D
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Minah…I think your last sentence might actually make some girls here say S.H.O.C.K.I.N.G 
and their hijab might spontaneously combust. Go slow…
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Minah_pa I see your point. I can see the labeling going on in small towns, cities/villages but metropolitan areas like NYC, Philly, LA, San Fran etc in other words big cities OR that book "last tango in Paris"?
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Minah, you make some really good points....you are right,,,but I still think that the urges women get are more geared toward affection for the other whereas men dont necessarily need to have affection/caring for the other. The behaviors definitely are affected by the possible outcomes though...women are s1uts and men are heros!
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Mem Saab you missed the whole point of the thread. Yes you will get it when you want it, but what if the ball was in the other court would the guy get it too, or is he gonna get slapped?
Edit: I hope the man is not doomed to spend the rest of his life in the lingerie section of debenhams.
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I still think Verizon tried to tell us that he got slapped and that now he and Mo3 are trying to cover it up ...
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Hmmm, going to bring up Spring Fling now. I work at a college and every year I get to hear the Spring Fling stories from the girls and boys (19-22).
Since the kids are away from their homeground, usually in FL, and around a lot of people they will never see again, they indulge. No affection needed, no cuddling. The boys come back and joke about the lines they get from the girls there and about how easy it is. All are athletes and in good condition, so they get a lot of attention. The girls let loose because they are not bound by anything.
I believe as women we are also taught that there should be a degree of caring and affection before we have sex, going back to the whole 'treasure' thingy. Women have the urge to have no strings attached sex, it a natural thing. We are just taught from a very young age to disregard it, that it is not natural, or if we do have that urge, then we must care for the person.
I am not advocating that people should be able to have sex whenever and with whoever they want, I think that is dangerous in a lot of ways, emotionally and physically. What I am saying is that, yes, women do have those urges and a no strings thing sometimes is very tempting, we just have more to lose.
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I always apologise politely on any direct questions. Shortage of real men :D
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^^ No darling you need to look up the definition of "pretentious". But it's ok I know some people are shy talking about biological needs.
Just remember don't have anything to conribute don't post. No offense.
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MS, if that were the case, I'd be all over him like ants at a picnic! But no worries, Verizon saab,, while he likes to flirt and enjoys looking at eye-candy, is a most honor-bound man.