Biological Needs

[Mem_Sahib]

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@Verizon

Mem Saab you missed the whole point of the thread. Yes you will get it when you want it, but what if the ball was in the other court would the guy get it too, or is he gonna get slapped?
Edit: I hope the man is not doomed to spend the rest of his life in the lingerie section of debenhams.

I meant when HE cums a lookin - i’ll say YES if I want it.
He wont get slapped. Ill shake his hand.
all depends on IF I want it.

u get me drift?

[Verizon]

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^^So if a man approaches you in a tube/train etc and smiles you smile back and after a few niceties he pops a question straight up and you feel upto it, you wont have an issue?
Be honest now. Winner get a coupon for 36DDs at debenhams ;)

[Sara516]

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^

In fantasy-world, if u didnt have an issue with f*king a stranger then sure why not...but in reality, those girls are known as sluts or hoes. And I don't know bout the small-town labeling as opposed to "big liberal cities", i still hear those labels here all the time

[Mem_Sahib]

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Verizon,

the answer is yes - can I have my coupon.

seriously, if I found him atractive, If he turned me on - yes i wud take him home.

[Verizon]

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^^ I like women that have a good sense of humor and guts. I know for soem reason that you wont and the guy would get his slap, but I have to take your word for it.
Let me call my contact in UK and see if he can get you a coupon. I am serious I can arrange for the coupon, he will have to mail it , or if I can get one electronically I will PM you.

[Mem_Sahib]

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nah seriously. Why dont u believe me?
a year ago - I wouldv - not now.

[system]

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Seriously though...casual sex, one night stands happen very very rarely...even in NY. Most people date, flirt, build up rapport, establish chemistry...before sex. SOmetimes it take 4 dates, sometimes it takes 1 date..sometimes it take 6 months...depends on your age, your attitudes towards sex and matching of those sentiments with the other person. As ong as it is done with your health and safety in mind, schtup away...says Rabbi Matsui. If you haven't learned what makes you satisfied sexually by the time you are married, you are going to be pretty crabby for the rest of your life.

[lastknightess]

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Well since women tend to be more emotional than men and end up having feelings after sex, I guess that's why they tend to be more selective than men. However maybe after a few rounds she too would discard the emotional strings and begin to enjoy some variety.

[minah_pa]

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Hey Rabbi, is that advice for the women, too?

I have a question to ask of the guys here.

I have a friend who is involved in an alternative lifestyle and casual sex to her is common. She prefers things that way since she doesn't want to be tied down. She is a great person and I have known her a long time. She is very pretty and amazingly sweet. She also has had numerous partners.

If you met her and came to like her, would this be a problem to you? Why would it be or why wouldn't it be? This has to be honest, the heck with Politically Correct.

If I was a guy, I probably would back off, cause I would be afraid her ability to stay with one person. But maybe I am looking at it as a woman.

[system]

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^ Actually you are not that far off. Men would probably be intimidated with her. They would still go to bed with her..but let her drive. :)

Yes, my comments stand for women as well.

[Madhanee]

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@Verizon

^^ LOL Nothing to do with MO3 MS? Just a general question. I walked with Madhanee to meet CM and Matsui, and while walking this question occured to me.
Madhanee it has nothing to do with your southern twangy accent either.

Mamaji, let me clarify, all 3 of us (Matsui, CM and Myself) are males (or at least would like to think so about ourselves) and none of us came on to your hubby, despite temptation.

Verizon yaar, I standby to what I said about Bush. He is an Ass, and Ass also means someone who is an idiot. Ass is not just that Ass. And I never implied that I wanted to have sex with Bush. It was just a figure of speech.

I agree with Mamaji here, men are asses and females put a lot more into any relationship that they have.

[714]

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what i find funny, is that mama and verizon are discussing this online

[Madhanee]

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^ That’s what happens in non-arranged marriages. In arranged marriages, you discuss such things with your cousin, who tells it to her mother, she then tells it to your mother, who approaches you and tells you that it is ok to wipe your ass with your uncle’s cap, as long as you hang it back on the hanger without anyone noticing the stain.

[Sara516]

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errr ..actually that’s kinda sorta true but still…don’t knock arranged mariages… ** not ** all of em are like that

[Verizon]

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714 we are not discussing it. She is providing her input, she is a mature lady entitled to her views as anyone else, just because she is married to me doesn't mean she cant post her opinions.
Madhanee Ji I am sorry that I took the southern ass as something besides Bush. It must be my pre-occupation with asses lately that I see around GS.

[GummyBear]

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When men ask women to have 'sex' and it is in a casual setting, I think what may run through the girls mind as she slaps his face is simply, "Do I look like an easy girl to you??' But I think there is an underlaying insecurity there meaning that though girls want to have fun and be wild every once in a while, we have been ingrained from our childhoods with this 'good girl image', guys want 'good girls' and all that gibberish. So we want men to see us as good girls rather then easy or bad girls.

S.

[Shak_killS]

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Verizon your thread reminded me one of my Greek flatmate, she had a boy friend back in Greece, but was going out with guys at uni, i asked her once why?
she said ... "well our body needs it, and its physical need"
basically she cant wait for years or holiday breaks to go back for her boy friend in Greece.

Basically these kind of body needs often suppressed by men and women who think more emotionaly than just physical needs.

[Verizon]

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Thats my opinion my brother its a biological need thats it, but religion, societal pressures make it sound like the crime of the century. I mean we all eat food and occasionally we eat dessert well sex is like a dessert thats all. Couple a minutes and its all over.
I dont know the big deal and mystery surrounding it.

[Verizon]

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@GummyBear

When men ask women to have ‘sex’ and it is in a casual setting, I think what may run through the girls mind as she slaps his face is simply, "Do I look like an easy girl to you??’ But I think there is an underlaying insecurity there meaning that though girls want to have fun and be wild every once in a while, we have been ingrained from our childhoods with this ‘good girl image’, guys want ‘good girls’ and all that gibberish. So we want men to see us as good girls rather then easy or bad girls.

S.

Yes I agree thats why good girls wait for one date and then “lets get it on”. Women should be open it will make this world a safer place.

[Madhanee]

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@Shak killS

Verizon your thread reminded me one of my Greek flatmate, she had a boy friend back in Greece, but was going out with guys at uni, i asked her once why?
she said … “well our body needs it, and its physical need”
basically she cant wait for years or holiday breaks to go back for her boy friend in Greece.

Basically these kind of body needs often suppressed by men and women who think more emotionaly than just physical needs.

Shak yaar… I totally see you point. I am married to a Greek and you are right about what you said about Greek ladies. Every time I go to Pakistan by myself, all my friends ask, hey, where’s Bhabhi…as if.

And if she wasn’t married to a stud like me, she would have long left me for someone who is sexier and stronger (you know what I mean).