Re: BIG dilemma- what to do?
Impulse:
ok u guys, here’s the deal:
so what would u do if were in a relationship with a guy, and u both really liked eachother, but then u suddenly came to a realization that u should not be dating in the first place (especially for people that are young). it’s not easy to tell him that you’re just suddenly quitting the relationship. and what if u two really consider getting a bit more serious about it, but u go to the guy and tell him that u are longer dating until you reach a certain age…but you’re afraid that if u tell him to wait for u, that he might go out and find some other girl.
so, basically, my question is:
how would you tell your bf /gf that you don’t want to be dating anymore (maybe because you’re simply too young, or u want to get finished with studies first), without making him think that you’re trying to avoid him. (and also that he won’t go get with some other girl while he’s “waiting” for you)?
Just make sure ur mature about it.. and tell them u need a break.. and make sure u let them know if u want them to wait for u or not.. its simple.. ask SMOKINCOOL.. he has the best advice for this kind of question.. he even gave a few friends we hang out with. this advice..