Both families can come together regardless of thier cultural differences. And marriage is MAINLY about two people coming together. If they love each other, they can overcome barrier between the families and over time their families will come together. Kids from mixed racial marraiges can spend equal time with both sides. It’s even better because they get to be part of both cultures. They can learn two different langauges and be acquanted with differnt cultures.
My cousin married a Chinese woman and their daughter is so adorable and she can speak mandarin, urdu and english! SHe goes to china for vacations and is comfortable with both cultures.
And the proverb goes like this : **“Bird of a feather, flock together” **not bird of same flock stay together! lol
And that proverb doesn’t mean you have to be same culture or race. It means people who are like you. Alteast thats how I see it. Anyone can see it with a racist interpretation but I don’t see it that way. I can relate to anyone from any culture as long as they think like me. It’s not necessary that i can only think like pakistanis hence i gotta marry one too.
I can “flocK” with whoever is compatible, he can be pakistani, or white, or chinese or any other race in the world.
And what about all those pakistani marraiges ending up in divorce? Theres no language or culture barrier there.
Bottom line is, there will always be complication in marrigae. So many times inlaws have issues with the daughter in law EVEN if they picked her out themselves. THers no guarantee any marriage will work so its rather unfair to say that mixed races cause problems.