Totally agree. I was just about to post something very similar to this.
It’s seriously just in our own heads. We make things complicated ourselves. Every marriage has so many issues and NO marriage is easy and smooth all the time. I know people who married their own first cousins and got divorced. So many arranged marriages with parents consent endup in disaster. If you keep finding reasons to make it more and more complicated and then blame it on the racial differences then its your own fault. Obviously other people espeically desi community is very critical about these things. But honestly WHO CARES? No one can say that only biracial marriages are unsuccessful.