hahaha .. thanks 
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he chose to fly to pakistan on the hottest day of that summer .. was 47 degrees that day! his flight was one hour late … immediately nothing happened for me … he looked very tired … had a 22 hour flight (although for him he said it was perfect) .. the first two days he lived with a friend of mine … so when i went back to him in the evening to have lunch together .. then i guess it was sparks everywhere 
D … after 2 days he shifted with me and my family to stay with us … and i guess that whatever was happening was quite obvious since my father even had to ask us if he needed to know anything … 
This is in fact precisely the mindset that i am working with in my thesis. its sad that it is so … since when you’re living together with another culture, it is impossible for these things to not happen … call it part of the package.
But do tell me … it’s quite common for mixed marriages, but in your opinion .. what is the percentage of people who think like your brother?