Deeba seriously get over youself, you act like a right tool. Your not Pakistani, your a benga whom we Pakistani from North hav nothing in common with at all. A s a kashmiri, us and the bengaz are a diff race.No need to be ashamed to be bengali infact it gives me a clearer picture as to why your dating a white lad as bengaz have a huge inferiority complex with every race imaginable. As a Pakistani i have more in common with a chinese lad than bengi/indian/tamil/nepali..
I could never see myself marrying a non-pakistani but she has to be kashmiri, pashtun or Mirpuri as i want to be assured my kids will remain religious,well grounded and close to their culture.