Yeah i have lived in America and pakistan. Anyone who says you should stick to your own race is somewhat racist.
But ofcourse in our culture nothing is considered racist at all. I come across racism all the time in pakistani community. People complaining or unhappy about their children or siblings marrying non pakistani people as if non-desis aren't good enough for them.
then y u say only pakistanis r racists. wat abt rednecks? Americans r no less racists even more so i would say. Britians, americans, Canadians all appear friendly but inside despise each other. Arabs r big time racists. So r malaysians. Pakistanis r very accepting ppl. they r more open hearted than many other races. i hav seen chinese closely. they stick together. they'll ignore u and speak only chinese with another chinese standing nearbyeven though they can speak english, they won't bother.
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yes if mothers want paki bahus they hav their own reasons because they want their traditions going on plus its easy to order abt paki girls ;) also so many aged ladies in our countries don't speak eng. they find it hard to accept a girl they can't even communicate with. my friend's bhabi is gori american. her mom needs a translator to talk to her bahu. so they hardly talk. she ends up talking with her son whole time. bhabi must hav felt ignored by her inlaws.