bi-racial relationships

[tammy8604]

@Mabrook

then embrace diff opinions too.

the Proverb i stated right or wrong still means wat i wanna say that same kind stick together and ppl of same view n thinking feel comfortable in each other’s company. u failed to understand the underlying message. u say u get along very well with all races but here u r mocking me(the way u corrected me and then added a lol at end) and calling me racist. thats how much it shows ur acceptance level.

well if maroush, mamaof3 n others who r in these marriages say its easy to handle cultural n religious challenges in these marriages. the inlaws from both sides get along very nicely.they didn’t hav to put extra effort and sacrifices in reaching mutual decisions regarding kids etc then it makes more sense but for a single girl who just has views makes no diff to me. plus if u giv ur parent’s example then i must say when its sometimes so hard to get along with ur own race its even harder to get along with others. the issue here is not colour or ethinicity the issue is the gap b/w values and bringing. ppl who make such marriages work make lots of adjustmets, compromises while showing gr8 tolerance, patience and respect. or either of the partners is more laid back n let other take the lead.

Farrah may be this article will be of interest 2 u

Interfaith, Intercultural and Interracial Marriage

I didn’t mock you but come on its funny when people forget the proverb! I would do that with anyone, and you can find it funny if i write something incorrectly. let it go man. I embrace different opinions, but NOT opinions that favor their own kind over others. I don’t know if you know the meaning of racism. It’s so deeply rooted in our society that we don’t see that its wrong.
You didn’t get my point. I don’t favor biracial relationships over same race ones. All relationships take alot of work. All i said was that theres no guarantee that anything will work. I have seen disasters in so many marriages, even arranged ones. So i just think its unfair to say those marriages are harder because its not. I have seen girls struggling to live with inlaws even if they are their own relatives like in cousin marriages.
For me, it comes back to husband and wife. Inlaws usually do cause problems in many cases but if the couple can put that behind them, it can lead to a succesful marriage.