bhabis

[ek_ladki]

Salams, mea yaha ki nai member zaroor hu lekin bahut dher se yaha ke topics parh rahi hu and chahti bhi thi ke register kar lu par time na mila. Aaj kal farigh thi tho socha kyu na aap logo se baat ho jaiy.

mea aap logo ko apni bhabi ke baray me batana chahti thi…and generally bhabis ke mutaliq baat karna chahta thi. pehle tho aap log mujhe maaf kijiye cz meri urdu bahut kamzor hea..koshishon me masruf hu ke behter ho jaiy par ismay bahut dher hea so filhal bardasht karein.

hum gaon me rehne walay hea..bahut saal pehle abu gao chor kar baeroni mulk shift hogaye thay and kuch hi dher baad humhe bhi waha settle karwa liya apnay sath. bachpan me hum log bahut khush thay…ammi abbu ne koi aisi pabandi nahin lagai thi hum logo pe aur na hi hum log daant mar ke adi thay. Jab mea 10 saal ki thi tho mere baray bhai ki shaadi ho gayi…pehle tho hum log bahut mazay mea thay..itni duaiyen mangatay thay ke bhabi ka visa lug jaiy aur jald az jald woh bhi humaray paas ajaiy. Hum duaiyen kartein rahen lkin Allah miyan ne suni kaha…aakhir kar..4 saal baad bhabi ka visa lag gaya tho woh bhi humaray paas agayi. Mea sochti thi bhabi apni nanand ki sab se azeez dost hoti hea..ke jo baatein hum ammi se sharam ke maray na keh paiyengi woh hum bhabi se kar lengi and ke woh ammi ka hath bethaiyegee..unke sath kaam krwayenge..and ammi ka bhoj halka hoga.

Kuch hi maheno baad ghar me larai jagray shuru hogaye..such batao tho aaj thak yea bhi nahin pata ke kin baaton par fasad hota tha..bas yaad hea ke mea choti si thi…raat ko ammi upar bhej deti thi sonay ke liye and hum chup chup ke kanon ko zameen par laga kar neechay lounge se unki baatein aur unka shor suntey rehtey thay. Kuch raatein ro ro kar kath di…

phir woh hua jiska maine kabhi sochaaa bhi nahin tha. Khwabon khayalon mea bhi kabhi socha nahin tha ke ek bhabi apni saas par hath utha sakti hea par aisa hi hua. Ammi bahut bhooli bhali si hea..dad bhi unpar bahut rob jamatay hea aur mujhe aaj kal is baat par bhi bahut gussa aa raha hea. Hua yea ke mea kamray me beth kar parhai kar rahi thi ke achanak mujhe kisi ki bhagnay ki awaz aiy aur phir ammi ki cheekh, mea ne kitabeein neechein penkhi and bhagti hui us kamray me ghus gayi jaha se shor ki awaz aa rahi thi. mere qadmon ke neechay se zamen jaise nikal gayi. bhabi ammi ka gala daba rahi thi aur ammi bebas cheekh rahi thi. mea bhagi aur bhabi ko pakar ke ammi se keenchna shuru kar diya..aur kehnay lagi ke bas karein..ammi ko chorien…mere keenchnay se unko koi asar nahin ho raha tha phir maine unkay hathon pe nakhun maray taqay unko dard ho aur ammi ka gala chor dein..ammi ka gala daban tho chor diya par phir ammi ke baal pakar liye aur unko kamray me gaseethna shuru kar diya..mea unke peechay peechay unko mar rahi thi, ro rahi thi ke ammi ko chor dein..aakhir me woh ek sofa par ja giri..khud neechay thi..ammi unke upar..aur unhon ne ammi ke bhaal hathon se pakray huvay thay..meri choti behen bhi pahunch gayi and usnay bhi mere sath phir bari mushkil se ammi ke baal churaiy bhabi ke hathon se…and phir hum ronay lag gayi..ammi bhi aur hum log bhi..bhai gali pe gali diye ja rahi thi hum sab ko..mujhe..mere parents..bhai..sab ko..

zahir hea ke itna kuch dekhnay ke baad mujhe apni bhabi se nafrat hogayi..itni nafrat ke mea bata nahin sakti..waisay unhon ne ek doh dafa phir aise hi kiya ammi ke sath..ammi bhai se chupati thi..aur sab se gusay wali baat yea ke har baar ammi ne unhen maaf kar diya kyunke woh ammi ki bhanji hea…

mujhe..mere bhaiyon ko..behen ko..bhabi se bahuttt nafrat hogayi..aur aaj thak hea..unhon ne humaray ghar me akay humhe itna zaleel kiya ke bas nahin. unki waja se bahut probs hui humhe..and bachpan me kaafi mayus rehna para.

Allah ka shukar hea ke aaj woh hum logo se alag rehti hea..lekin phir bhi…rozana humaray ghar ati hea..aur ab bhi humhe sukh ka saans nahin lene deti. bhai aur bhabi ka rishta tho aap log samaj le hea hi nahin. ek doosray se bilkul baat nahin kartay..bhai ke kapray humaray ghar me hea…kaam janay se pehle woh humaray ghar atay hea..ammi unko chai bana kar deti hea..unifrom agar change karna ho tho kar leten hea..and phir kaam chaly jatay hea.

Bhabi bhi humaray ghar me hi kana kati hea. Rozana ammi kana tayar karti hea..aur mea unka hath bedati hu…bhabi aur unke bachay atay hea kana ka kar..relax kartay hea..khoob gand daal kar apnay sajay huvay mahal me chali jati hea. Aur haan unka ghar..abbu ne sab setting karwa kar di hea..humara ghar tho ek jhompri jaise lagta hea bhabi ke ghar ke nisbat.

Aaj mujhe abbu se bahut nafrat ho rahi thi…kuch maheeno se ho rahi hea. Abbu chahay tho bhabi ko keh saktay he apnay ghar me kaya peeya karein..and ana hea hto vist ke liye zaroor aou par yea nahin ke aiy..moj masti ki..chalay gaye. Pura din hum unke peechay peechay safai karti rehti hea.

Pura muhallah janta hea ke bhabi kis kisam ki aurat hea. Aur yea bhi jantein hea ke unhon ne humaray sath kaisay kaisay zulm kiye hea. Sab jaan kar bhi bhabi ki bahut izzat kartay hea ..aur ab …aaj mea apni cousin se mili jo mujhe bata rahi thi ke bhabi chahti hea ke mere doosray bhai ki shaadi unki behen se ho. Unhon ne ammi abbu ko keh diya ke ‘iski zimdari muj par chorein’. Ajj dil chah raha hea ke unko mar dalu. i feel like killing her. aur aaj panay parents par bhi intihai gussa aa raha hea. ek ko dekh liye aur ab doosri ko la kar phir se humari zindagi barbad karenege. Bhabi aur behen raj karti rahengi aur hum unke peechay naukraniyon jaise bhagaty rahengi.

aaj sach me bahut rona aa raha hea. aaj dil kar raha hea ke bhabi ki jaan le lun …aaj dil keh raha hea ke duniya me koi sharafat se nahin keenay deta. jo chup kar jatay hea unhi ki zuban kath letey hea log. aisa kyu hea..

ab maaf kijiye..baat kaha se kaha legaiyi mea..bas aaj bahut kuch kehnay ko dil kar raha tha lekin koi sunanay wala nahi tha.

[Shahreen]

I was going to ask you to translate that into english but judging from the length of the post it'll take you ages.

[Mr_Fraudia]

your bhabhi is an idiot, and your brother is a jackass, and you guys need to develop a backbone to cut off terms with these morons if they can not treat you like human beings.

sarr par kyun char-haya hua hai?

[Faisal]

I salute anyone who can understand this post. A candy from me, for any naik soul who can provide the gist of this post to us in legible English (two sentences or less, pls).

Shukria.

[Mr_Fraudia]

[QUOTE]
*Originally posted by Faisal: *
I salute anyone who can understand this post. A candy from me, for any naik soul who can provide the gist of this post to us in legible English (two sentences or less, pls).

Shukria.
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here is an exec summary

"ek ladki is from closeknit simple family.. parents not very educated but simple caring folks, has a rbo who got married, the bhabhis related to them as well..anyways the bhabhi is rude, crude and socially screwed..to a point that she has assaulted and beaten up her mother in law on 2 occassions. The brother is whipped and curses out his family..and after a lot of tension has moved to his own place..

except his clothes are at his parents place where he shows up each day to change and eat, and teh bhabhi comes over to eat there on a daily basis as well. does not respect anyone and so on and so forth..

...

thus my assertion that tthey need to give the whipped boy and his bizzatch of a wife a rude awakening and ban them from the home.

[paki_maryam]

Its not that hard people, the gist is that the bhabi (daughter-in-law) is evil she is pushing her limits, she expects everyone to slave after her and has even gone to the extreme to slap her mother-in-law and the family is doing nothing about they are silent and they are giving in, and its making ek ladki mad! To worsen the situation the bhabi now wants her younger sister to marry her devar (her brother-in-law) and ek ladki expects her sister to be the same, so she doesn’t want that rishta to exist either! Simple?

[Shahreen]

Aha I see. Nothing more constructive to add at this point I'm afraid.

[ShaRaRa]

**ik ladki ** ur bhabhi deserves to be ****slapped back to pakistan, and if possible with her husband ..

uparse khaala ki beti hai, koi lehaaz sharam nhi usmain, haan sar par kion charhaaya huwa hai? aisey log pyaar se sudharne wale nhi hote.. aur tum kion khaane main help kurti ho .. uske bachey hain woh khud khaana banaaye khud khilaaye, uske itne nakhrey kion bardaasht kur rahe ho? koi khaas waja?

aur haan NEVER share ur stuff with ur bhabhi mera matlab baatein waghera aur haan aisi bhabhi se to kuch bhi nhi share kurna chaahiye baatein to duur ki baat..

aur agar woh tumhari ammi ko ungli tuk bhi lugaaye to joota uthaa kur uske moo pur maara karo :o i know it will be hard but try kurna atleast ziada moti to nhi hai na? aur yeh tumhara bhai kis jahaan ki makhlooq hai, uska apni bivi par koi control nhi? usko kaho chullu bhar paani main doob jaaye..

jub rone peh dil kiya kare to royaa karo aur bhabhi par cheekha karo aur usko aaina dikhaaya karo, errm woh shadi se pehle bhi aisy hi thi?

[Faisal]

Honestly, I am dead sure there is more to it. It can't be such a one-sided story. This story is so black and white, that it is almost unbelievable. Either there is a mental illness somewhere, or a family phadda or something else. This just doesn't sound like a normal family.

Disclaimer: My views are based on the 'gist' provided above. My roman urdu is not so good, so can't read the whole kit & kaboodle.

[CorruptAngel]

^
ditto!!

aapki baaton say to aapki bhabi ka character sahi nahi lagta magar phir bhi unke laraayi karne ki aur aapse buri tarah paish aane ki koi to wajah hogi....you know everything except why she tried to hurt your mom? I don't buy that...there must be a very good reason behind all this believe me! :)

[abc1234]

walekumsalam ek ladki…aur gupshup pe aap ka khushaamdeyd… yaar kisi kee zindagi masaail se paak naheen hoti…is ko Allah miyan kee taraf se imtehaan samaj kar jhel lo…abhee to waisay bhee tumhein apnay ghar jana hae…aur wahan tumhara naata nayay logon se ho jana hae…is lyay tum khush raha karo jo sabar karta hae us se Allah khush rehta hae..

ye sun kar bohot shadeed hairat hui aur dukh hua kay tumhari bhabi ne tumhari ammi ke oppar haath uthaya…astaghfirullah…aisa karna kisi taraf se jaiz naheen chahay jo bhee ho…bohot sharam kee baat hae…

mujhay lekin ye samaj naheen aata ke tumhari bhabi tumharay ghar pe kyun khana khaati hae? apna kyun nahene pakateen? agar alag rehti haen to apna naheen pakateen ya tum logon kee ye khushi hae ke sab akhthay bayth ke saath khayein? khanay ke baad wo tumhari safai waghera mein madad naheen kerteen kya bilkul? tumharay bhai ke kapray tumharay ghar pe kyun haen? aur tumharay apnay bhai nokri to kerte haen phir un ke ghar ka rent tumharay abby kyun dete haen? aur tum log saray apni bhabi se itna tang ho to phir un kee choti behn lo lanay ka soch bhee kaisay rahay ho? kyun ke aakheer kaar is baat ka faisla to tumharay waledeyn ko hi kerna hae na ke us ko bahu banana hae ke naheen…

[system]

[QUOTE]
*Originally posted by Faisal: *
Honestly, I am dead sure there is more to it. It can't be such a one-sided story. This story is so black and white, that it is almost unbelievable. Either there is a mental illness somewhere, or a family phadda or something else. This just doesn't sound like a normal family.

Disclaimer: My views are based on the 'gist' provided above. My roman urdu is not so good, so can't read the whole kit & kaboodle.
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Faisal... its about how her older brother got married to a cousin.. so shes become her bhabhi... after 4 long years of anticipation... the bhabhi got her visa and started to live with her inlaws... within a few months... arguments started to happen between the bhabhi and the mother in law...

one day.. the bhabhi was trying to strangle the mother in law.. but the girl(who wrote this) came in between.. so the bhabhi dragged her by the hair... this scene happened a few more times and then finally the bhabhi and her brother moved out..

the father in law provided his son the house which was a castle compared to his own house... the relationship between the husband and wife virtually didnt exist... they ate and did everything in the inlaws house.. and only slept at theirs..

and now the bhabhi wants her younger sister to marry her husbands younger brother...

and the girl who wrote this... wants to kill her... shes angry with practically everyone in the household except her mum :)

happy?

[zidee]

hmmm, bhabis?
i have older bros, i can't wait till they get married, so I 2 can have bhabis...
but one thing is for sure....NO ONE WOULD EVER LAY A FINGER ON MY MOTHER AND GET AWAY WITH IT!!!

ek ladki - that's the motto u need to think about!
btw, how old r u? r u afraid of something? why r u afraid to confront your sis in law about this....the 2 of u should be friends!

well, thats how things would be in my happy little world!

tc and good luck wid the situation!

[Degas]

[QUOTE]
*Originally posted by sadzzz: *

Faisal... its about how her older brother got married to a cousin.. so shes become her bhabhi... after 4 long years of anticipation... the bhabhi got her visa and started to live with her inlaws... within a few months... arguments started to happen between the bhabhi and the mother in law...

one day.. the bhabhi was trying to strangle the mother in law.. but the girl(who wrote this) came in between.. so the bhabhi dragged her by the hair... this scene happened a few more times and then finally the bhabhi and her brother moved out..

the father in law provided his son the house which was a castle compared to his own house... the relationship between the husband and wife virtually didnt exist... they ate and did everything in the inlaws house.. and only slept at theirs..

and now the bhabhi wants her younger sister to marry her husbands younger brother...

and the girl who wrote this... wants to kill her... shes angry with practically everyone in the household except her mum :)

happy?
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Is there any other language in which we can understand this.. its too story like with weak plot..

• title seem like all bhabis in the world are evil -relationship between couple is nothing then why is he living with her wife and leave his family? -they moved out and severed relationships with these people but still came to eat with them!!! -why would that girl want to marry with her dewer as she knows her sister wont be treated well there and why will this younger brother respect the girl whose sister has a habit of strangling his mother and pulling her sisters hair?

[system]

That brohter should divorce that evil wife of his and move back with his family. He shoudl never have sided with his wife and left his parents, she is evil, or else she wouldn't have gone as far as trying to strangle (!!!) her mother - in - law no matter what. Yes, there probably is a second side to the story, but strangling your mother - in - law....

I don't understand why that lovely brother moved out with that evil woman, knowing what she is like.

It's time the roles are reversed. He should tell her to apologise, behave for now on or else throw her out.

And moving out, but still using your families food and changing clothes there... are we talking about adults or teens?

[Aalhan]

**The post isn't so difficult that it needs
to be translated back and forth.

Ek ladki, few questions:

• What has driven your sister~in~law to this?
• How can your brother live with this mess between his wife and parents and why does he?
• Why are your parents pampering your brother and his wife like 2^year^olds.
• Where are your relatives (sister~in~laws') parents?
• Who gave her the authority to select your other brother's wife? (It should be a right only for your brother who's the one actually going to be married).

Simple solution, if you live in North America or Europe
next time she tries to be abusive with anyone in anyway
pick up the phone and dial the three magical number, 9 1 1.

You'll be amazed at the wonders it can do.**

[system]

Agreee@Aalhan ( you know for some weird reason your name always reminds me of the lion in the Lion the witch and the wardrobe..Aslan...) anyways back to bhabis, throw her out..people like that deserve to rot in hell.

[ch_and-be_ii]

[QUOTE]
*Originally posted by Faisal: *
Honestly, I am dead sure there is more to it. It can't be such a one-sided story. This story is so black and white, that it is almost unbelievable. Either there is a mental illness somewhere, or a family phadda or something else. This just doesn't sound like a normal family.

[/QUOTE]

Exactly! The story is too one-sided.

Ek Larki: There are things which you have failed to mention here. In your next post, please state the whole truth.

:)

[nia_khan]

damn it ! first of all i would have punched, kicked, slapped,scratched my bhabi from everywhere just to raise a hand at my mother. I would have told my brother right there to take her some where.

see major problem with pakistani women they love being oppressed mannn.. I even feel like smacking your bhabi so hard that she would hurt herself ..

Girl you should have smacked her right there.. I am so happy you are living away from her... mother in law is also a mother first .... how can a niece be so cruel .

i am so upset i would have to come back for further suggestions

tali dono hatho se bajti hai...

[robby]

Man ur brother must be a big time sissy to support a woman who beat his mother up, he should have divorced her sent her back home, its her who has all the problems not u people, i guess your brother does not have the guts to do that, simply chuck the woman out of the house and tell her i have nothing to do with you anymore whats the point of living with her if he does not even speak to her anymore and she does nothing for him?????

If i had a wife who hit my mother or cussed her i would tell her to get lost in an instant no matter what excuse she comes up with she would be out of my life and i would not regret it for even one moment.