Ek Larki: There are things which you have failed to mention here. In your next post, please state the whole truth.
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it cant be one sided from the sound of it. i dont think these people are capable to do anything wrong that SULTAN RAHI BHABI, cause they seem too Shareef!
If i would be at your bothers Place I would have kicked her out a long time ago.
Beating up your mum is enough apart from other things.
IF you people cant kick her out for some family reasons,
Try to stay away and ask her not to come to your place!
If she is not happy with you people she will be ok to live alone!
if you are in west, Just call police whenever you see her doing it again! Dont care about parents or others, just call them.
Reading all above make me think, there must be a catch that you people are tolerating this woman! her family pressure?? etc
Thanks to Allah I havent got any brother to have any babhi, my sisters will have one atleast ;) . but I am sure everyone is not same.
awwww...sigh das sad yar....i feel for u......buh u kno i respect ur mum to da fullest dat afta all she been thru she hasn't beat da shyte outa ur bhabhi
buh i guess she's one o those ppl who r mad patient n think sum1 will learn from dat..buh i think ur bhabhi's one o da dheetest ppl in dis world i don't think dat dumb azz is eva gonna undastand...
sigh u kno im so thankful to Allah(Swt) dat i have da bestest most sweetest bhabhi eva..eventhough she's ma cousin's wify she's da best Mashallah....i met her 2 weeks ago n in juz one week i fell in luv wid her n juz got so attached to her n felt like i knew her from ages.......she's da opposite of ur bhabhi n i feel fo u im so sorry dis happened buh ya'll definetly need to make her stop cuz if u keep lettin it go she's gonna keep on doin dis n bcome da worst b**** eva
What are the odds of someone posting such a large roman urdu post about a fearsome bhabi, doing a disappearing act and everyone still providing their 2 cents after three days?
pehle tho mea unka logo ka shukriya ada karu jinhon ne mera itna lamba post parha and waqt nikal kar replys ki..
faisal currupt angel. you know aap ki baatein parh kar mujhe hansi agayi cuz bahuttttttttt logo ne humhe aisa kaha hea pehle. Tho aap log yea kehna chah rahay hea yea kahani one sided hea right? One sided hi kyu na ho...kisi ki ma par hath uthana kabbbbbb sahi tha? larai jagra har ghar me hota hea. saaas bahooven ki laraiya ke hazar qisay hotay hea, hea ke nahin?? tho agar koi choti moti baat ho jaiy tho aap ko apnay gussay par qabu karna chahiyey..kisi baray ko marna kya..unke samnay awaz nahin unchi karni chahiyey...and she hit my mum. no mother in law balkay no elder person in the world deserves to be hit by any one younger.
and currupt angel shaid ammi ne bhi humaray chotay hotay huvay unke sath kuch bura balah kiya ho...maine post me likha bhi hea ke mea bas 13 saal ki thi and i dnt know ke ke apas me kya ho raha tha.. ...par the memories are painful and i still cant forgive her.
Fraudia im sorry maine typing me error kar diya tha...bro ne gali nahin di balkay bhabi de rahi thi. ammi ne yea sab kuch bhai se chupaya huva hea cuz woh yea nahin chahti thi ke bhai aur bhabi ke beech koi problems ho. bhai mere bahut achay hea..bhabi unke sath bhi bura salook karti hea lekin woh bardasht kiyey jatay hea. and haan rahi modem ki baat..mere se log in nhin ho raha tha..bahut koshish ke baad aaj aakhir log in hui hu and khuda jnay yea post bhi send hoga ke nahin..khair thanks for your coomments.
aalhan ammi will kill me agar maine 911 ke baray me socha bhi .
irem bhabis only think of herself. private message kar ke bataoungi..pehle se hi log humhe abnormal keh rahay hea..aur baatein share karungi tho theek nahin lagay ga.
shak kills you are right ..jab hum log 12 saal se yea sab kuch bardasht kar rahay hea tho humaray liye ab is se nikalna bahuttttt mushkil hoagaya hea.samaj rahe ho na? agar mea un dino me bari hoti tho shaid yea haal na hota..afsos ke mea khud ek bachi thi jab yea sab shuru hua tha..
robby mere bhai bahut achay hea. bholay bhalay nadan se..apni hi duniya me magan hea woh..and bhabi chalaak khusyhaar ..number ek b@@@@ hea.
itni zayada replies..itnay sawal..maazrat chahti hu ke aaj bhi puri replies nahin de paoungi..par aap log parhtya rhiye ga..kal inshallah baqi logo ko replies dungi
thank you for the clarification. In my opinion you guys should tell the brother. However if this has been going on for 12 years does he not see it? or does teh bhabhi act 100% differently when he is around?
either way, she needs to be confronted, and he needs to be advised of her actions. once he is advised of her actions, she needs to be told to behave. If she cvan not behave then she should be banished.
There are 3 things critical here
1) your family's resolve to be treated with respect
2) your brother's backbone to take a stand
3) Your bhabhis ability to change or at minimum back off if her behavior is out in the open
Your parents are probably not taking a stand for it because they dont want to worry your brother, and they dont want to be in a situation where this is all in the open and your brother is caught in the middle where to please his wife he limits his contacts with the family. But, IF your brother has no clue, I am sure he would be very heartbroken when he finds out that his parents suffered so much to prevent hardship for him.
However, I dont think your brother is blind. I would be surprised if he is completely oblivious to teh situation. His approach may be that "its not my problem"
Buy a mini tape recorder or a video camera and tape her while she is in action. Then make few copies and send it to her parents, relatives, friends and your brother.
I bet you all will have the last laugh.
But you gotta do it. Don't worry about "loag kia kahangiay". LogoN ki aisi ki taisi. No guts, no glory.
dude thats an excellent suggestion, actually the mpegs of her kartoot should be posted on the net as well and links dsent to everyone in the family as well. After all that zillat maybe she will back off.
"ek ladki is from closeknit simple family.. parents not very educated but simple caring folks, has a rbo who got married, the bhabhis related to them as well..anyways the bhabhi is rude, crude and socially screwed..to a point that she has assaulted and beaten up her mother in law on 2 occassions. The brother is whipped and curses out his family..and after a lot of tension has moved to his own place..
except his clothes are at his parents place where he shows up each day to change and eat, and teh bhabhi comes over to eat there on a daily basis as well. does not respect anyone and so on and so forth..
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thus my assertion that tthey need to give the whipped boy and his bizzatch of a wife a rude awakening and ban them from the home.
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thank you.. i coudlnt read most of it and coudlnt get half of it because of the not reading.
well, my brothers not married yet so i really dont know about this and i just thought of one thing, didnt the guy know who he was ending up with was close to satin him self??
I think you should put her in her place andi am surprise your brother has closed his eyes... show him some manners too.. its time for a change sweety...
mein shayad bohot bigari hoi thi.. 12 sal ki bhi thi tab se hi i knew how to put people in their place - sister cousins were great help :D
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