Re: bhabi issue
No-one said they don’t comment but the difference is how much is tolerated by the women on the receiving end..
I don’t believe in holding grudges either but at the same time I’m not convinced she’s holding a massive grudge anyway.. she’s not said anything nasty in response (I think).. It seems more to me like she’s trying to ignore them and not get into that sort of situation again..
One of them didn’t apologise at all and the other apologised after being shouted at by an elder (though admittedly she apologised after that as well).. If I was in the bhabi’s shoes I wouldn’t be that confident about it not happening again.. and I wouldn’t be surprised if comments about her personal appearance were made to her before that day too..